Cheating or no? NEED OPINIONS!!!!!!!!!!

[wickedxbo1]

So my girl friend of 4 years....not a couple months decides to tell me she was going to sleep last sat at 11pm(who sleeps that early?). i thought it was kind of fishy. she usually calls me to say g-night. she didnt though. i called her cell numerous times. she didnt pick up (i thought she had it on silent mode or something). so its like 2 in the morning. i get kind of worried. i decide to drive to her house. i noticed her window is unlocked and the screen on there if off. <~thats how she usually sneaks out. I WAS SO FUCKIN PISSSED! i called the boys and we waited til 8 in the morning outside her house. she comes home and she knew was caught. she told the fucker to drive 2 streets down so i dont lay him out on her lawn. she said she was just chillin with him and his friends at there house. they watched a movie and she had couple drinks. <~i will never know what she really did. its unknown.........what can u do for 8 hours? a movie is like 2 hrs max! I NEED OPINIONS!!!!!!!!!!

1. she lied to me and said she was going to sleep
2. she goes out with another guy that i dont even know

i was more worried about her gettin home safely thing anything. we she came home i feel in disbelief. 4 years and this is what i get? i treat you like a queen and i get fucked in the ass?

She doesnt think she did anything wrong but just lied to me!!!

opinions!!!!!!!!!!

username- ikeepitclean <~~~

i need to have a talk to you in person. DONT EVER TRY TO HOMEWRECK ME. feel free to pm me or whatever. thanks

[wickedxbo1]

he knew i was going out with her to b/c we saw him at the club the night before. i would THINK she knew we were still together.

[FilthyHore]

:roflmao: :roflmao: :roflmao:
this is already some funny net-drama. didn't yo' girl say he was a fob anyway??




drop her ass.

[b0y_br3ak3r]

drop that hoe! you no-nan

[FilthyHore]

drop that hoe! you no-nan

:roflmao: :roflmao: *****, you are crackin me up! that's your new tag-line, negro.

[b0y_br3ak3r]

oh shit. you're the dude with the mandy lookin gf??? dannnnnnnnnnnnnnng. holy shit. iono dude, fightin on the net, then hookin up later. sounds fishy to me.

[b0y_br3ak3r]

:roflmao: :roflmao: *****, you are crackin me up! that's your new tag-line, negro.
werd :roflmao:

[civic_carboy]

yeah, she's cheating on you. stop trippin and drop her, she's just a girl...yeah yeah yeah 3 years, whatever. those 3 years must not be that important. forget about her. no need to talk to the guy she was with or investigate, she fucked up. don't be like evry other guy and try to make her tell you everything and then try to get back with her.

[wickedxbo1]

http://upload.houston-imports.com/uploaded/fag.jpg

[b0y_br3ak3r]

http://upload.houston-imports.com/uploaded/fag.jpg
OMFG!!!! :roflmao: :rofl:

dude i hope you ain't shittin us

[civic_carboy]

http://upload.houston-imports.com/uploaded/fag.jpg


is this a joke?

[FatAbbot]

I had the exact same shit happen to me bro, you gotta lose the dead weight (i.e. the cheating bitch....)

I had been dating my high school sweatheart for 4 years. My junior year of college I notice this one dude that was somewhat a friend to her roommate was over at her place a little too much. (I only lived 2 buildings over in the college apartments too, the nerve that bitch had still astounds me to this day...)

Sure enough, he was boning my girl. I only found out the truth after we broke up.

Believe me, if she was just "hanging out", she wouldn't need to lie to you about it to begin with.

[FilthyHore]

maybe you shouldn't be puttin dood on blast like that...its like you're proud that someone like that swooped yo' triflin woman up from under you.

[b0y_br3ak3r]

Believe me, if she was just "hanging out", she wouldn't need to lie to you about it to begin with. werd, thats right. i heard that. and a bag of chips.

[civic_carboy]

all girls lie, most cheat. don't fall victim.

[wickedxbo1]

yea hes the little bitch from the post a pic thread. there both at fault. he knew i was with her. i would cut him some slack if he didnt know and she told him she was single.

[civic_carboy]

yea hes the little bitch from the post a pic thread. there both at fault. he knew i was with her. i would cut him some slack if he didnt know and she told him she was single.


cut both of them some slack and go the opposite direction. forget about it.

[Replica]

Women are fucking worthless,welcome aboard the ship of depression.

[Boo]

drop her.......... but thats just me?!?!

[FilthyHore]

Women are fucking worthless,welcome aboard the ship of depression.

YOU hush on up.


p.s. homegirl's kinda on the hoe level to jump on some dick she clowned the fuck out of.

[FatAbbot]

Women are fucking worthless,welcome aboard the ship of depression.

Ok, that's a little over-dramatic, don't you think?

This situation sucks for this guy, but I've been there. There are plenty of other chicks out there, don't spend too much time being obsessed with the fucked up current events of this doomed relationship.

[flawless09]

Sorry man....

[Replica]

YOU hush on up.


p.s. homegirl's kinda on the hoe level to jump on some dick she clowned the fuck out of.
Well, what else is there to say? This is just one of those situations that can't be fixed. Broken trust CANNOT be mended. Just time to accept it and move on, if she really was cheating.

[civic_carboy]

she was cheating.

[Replica]

she was cheating.
The story left doubt. Maybe i didnt read it right.

[wickedxbo1]

http://upload.houston-imports.com/uploaded/fag2.jpg

your pic is on file from the homewrecker police.

[Replica]

http://upload.houston-imports.com/uploaded/fag2.jpg

your pic is on file from the homewrecker police.
No point blaming the dude, your girl is the one that slipped. (although that'd make him a bastard too)

[FilthyHore]

Well, what else is there to say? This is just one of those situations that can't be fixed. Broken trust CANNOT be mended. Just time to accept it and move on, if she really was cheating.

yea, dawg..don't say ALL women though just b/c one girl can't keep a muzzle on her split-tail

[Boo]

girls are way to damn complicated......... first minute there happier then ever the next they need a break its to much damn work sometimes

[FatAbbot]

The story left doubt. Maybe i didnt read it right.

You read it right, but that's how he sees it. Any third-party that's removed from the situation can see that she's riding someone else's meat pole.

When you're the one that might be getting cheated on, reality isn't always clear, we try to keep faith.

But here it's painfully obvious...

[Replica]

yea, dawg..don't say ALL women though just b/c one girl can't keep a muzzle on her split-tail
*most :(

[civic_carboy]

http://upload.houston-imports.com/uploaded/fag2.jpg

your pic is on file from the homewrecker police.


ok serioulsly you don't sound all that upset about it, is this really a joke?

[Replica]

You read it right, but that's how he sees it. Any third-party that's removed from the situation can see that she's riding someone else's meat pole.

When you're the one that might be getting cheated on, reality isn't always clear, we try to keep faith.

But here it's painfully obvious...
Just trying to keep the faith I guess. ibe been where this guy is now, and it hurts more than anything. :hs:

[FatAbbot]

Just trying to keep the faith I guess. ibe been where this guy is now, and it hurts more than anything. :hs:

Werd Replica, I have to. It sucks, but rarely does God give you such a strong sign that your signifigant other isn't the one for you. And to me, that's a good thing. "every cloud has a silver lining"

I'm a dork....

[Red]

buahahahahaha JUST LIKE I SAID in the picture thread, i soo knew that was gonna happen.. buahahaha!!!

and d00d, you couldnt phase that guy for shit so dont even front.

[Red]

girls are way to damn complicated......... first minute there happier then ever the next they need a break its to much damn work sometimes
:wrd:

[wickedxbo1]

i feel so betrayed more then anything. angry and in disbelief. how can you do such a thing? it really does hurt.

[Replica]

Werd Replica, I have to. It sucks, but rarely does God give you such a strong sign that your signifigant other isn't the one for you. And to me, that's a good thing. "every cloud has a silver lining"

I'm a dork....
That's true. Cheating or not, it's a sign she's inconsiderate and not good enough. For future reference, when girls don't answer their phone, something bad is going on... :-/

[wickedxbo1]

you couldnt phase that guy for shit so dont even front.

ok....if you say so

[b0y_br3ak3r]

That's true. Cheating or not, it's a sign she's inconsiderate and not good enough. For future reference, when girls don't answer their phone, something bad is going on... :-/
or i could be takin a shit and playin siberian strike on my phone. too busy to answer.

[Red]

or i could be takin a shit and playin siberian strike on my phone. too busy to answer.
word, replica is going through this "i hate girls" phase it seems. just cause you've had some pyscho ones doesnt mean there isnt a decent one out there that also drives a turbo sohc :D

and to the wickedboi d00d, just charge it to the game and move the fuck on, no use in cryin bout it unless you feel like you wasted all that time with her.. if you feel that way then you need councelin..

its one of those "it was good while it lasted but time to move on" type ah things.

[Kohinoor]

tag her car and house with:

"dont date this backstabbing bitch"
and then in small letters write
"she has hiv"
shell never get a date
buahahahaha

[Red]

tag her car and house with:

"dont date this backstabbing bitch"
and then in small letters write
"she has hiv"
shell never get a date
buahahahaha
EVIL

[JDIAZ]

I would have hit it one last time then said fook you and walked out.

It has happend to every one once. Chicks wonder why guys are dogs. Buck up and never air ur dirty laundry on a message board.

[b0y_br3ak3r]

tag her car and house with:

"dont date this backstabbing bitch"
and then in small letters write
"she has hiv"
shell never get a date
buahahahaha
:eek3: scandalous

[FatAbbot]

and to the wickedboi d00d, just charge it to the game and move the fuck on, no use in cryin bout it unless you feel like you wasted all that time with her.. if you feel that way then you need councelin..

Agreed, don't take revenge, nothing good can come out of it. Be the bigger person and walk away. Don't make the mistake that I did and go after the guy, I realize now that it wasn't his ass I needed to take to the curb....

[FilthyHore]

or i could be takin a shit and playin siberian strike on my phone. too busy to answer.

soooooo.... is that what happened when i called you yesterday?? fibber!!!


you no-nan! :rofl:

[b0y_br3ak3r]

lol. you didn't call me.

[wickedxbo1]

tag her car and house with:

"dont date this backstabbing bitch"
and then in small letters write
"she has hiv"
shell never get a date
buahahahaha

im not immature like that. the damage is done. i dont need to do stupid shit to try to get her back.

[b0y_br3ak3r]

waiting. sitting back with popcorn in lap. the homewrecker will enter soon.

[wickedxbo1]

waiting. sitting back with popcorn in lap. the homewrecker will enter soon.

eating popcorn with ya......

[b0y_br3ak3r]

im not immature like that. the damage is done. i dont need to do stupid shit to try to get her back.
to get her back? so you broke up with her on the spot?

[FatAbbot]

to get her back? so you broke up with her on the spot?

to get her back=to have revenge

[b0y_br3ak3r]

oh my bad. damn. back to popcorn for me then.

[EG6]

waiting. sitting back with popcorn in lap. the homewrecker will enter soon.
im with you on this :thumb:

[wickedxbo1]

to get her back=to have revenge

broke up on the spot.

thanks people for your opinions.

[FatAbbot]

thanks people for your opinions.

No prob, good luck to you.

[EG6]

oh my bad. damn. back to popcorn for me then.damn im out can i have some of yours :D

[b0y_br3ak3r]

sure thang.

[Replica]

or i could be takin a shit and playin siberian strike on my phone. too busy to answer.
haha, You're not normal Kanha. i'd be all over you if you were looking. :D

[al]

No point blaming the dude, your girl is the one that slipped. (although that'd make him a bastard too)

Sounds like the dude knew she wasn't single. And I highly doubt she raped the innocent boy. It takes two ... if I were in that situation, I'd beat both of them, male, female, bisexual, gay-experimental, whatnot. I would call for an impromptu 240SX / Teaworks meet.

She might not have cheated, but she did lie like a motherfucker, and that's reason enough to break up, so good going.

[Dorian]

Sounds like the dude knew she wasn't single. And I highly doubt she raped the innocent boy. It takes two ... if I were in that situation, I'd beat both of them, male, female, bisexual, gay-experimental, whatnot. I would call for an impromptu 240SX / Teaworks meet.

She might not have cheated, but she did lie like a motherfucker, and that's reason enough to break up, so good going. Fucking word. But all in all, she probably did. Don't loose any sleep over that shit. Fucked up either way.

[Replica]

:Chuck the deuces:

[*J*]

Fuck that. If she wasn't doing anything wrong, she wouldn't have lied.

[Red]

she lied to protect your feelings HAHAHAHAH

[al]

I Did It To Make Sure I Really Loved You

Even tho you threw that bitch away and that she is now a part of your past, it would still be worthwhile to beat the shit out of all parties involved. You know, for "closure's sake" ... That's just me, tho.







... I'll do it but I'll need the money up front. :eek3:

[b0y_br3ak3r]

haha, You're not normal Kanha. i'd be all over you if you were looking. :D
:D sweet!

and omg! i just saw jenni's eyes move!! i thgt these other ppl were on crack but i was wrong. :roflmao:

[Replica]

Yeah, it really blinks.:)

[*J*]

:D sweet!

and omg! i just saw jenni's eyes move!! i thgt these other ppl were on crack but i was wrong. :roflmao:
Yeah it blinks now...cuz I changed it. lol I think they were really smoking crack that day though. Cuz it wasn't blinking.

[Replica]

Yeah it blinks now...cuz I changed it. lol I think they were really smoking crack that day though. Cuz it wasn't blinking.
it blowdeded my mind.

[wickedxbo1]

holy shit captain! the sig blinks.........

gotta take it day by day.....and girls wonder why guys become dawgs....

[wickedxbo1]

i forgot to say.......

SHE DOESNT THINK SHE DID ANYTHING WRONG BUT LIE TO ME. MAN, THATS SOME SHIT.

[the Asshats]

This is just one of those situations that can't be fixed. Broken trust CANNOT be mended. Just time to accept it and move on, if she really was cheating.

:wrd: True to that... but anyways.. that foo is swoll... I'd be scared to talk shit to him... here have my girl.. bwhah.. lol

[Replica]

:wrd: True to that... but anyways.. that foo is swoll... I'd be scared to talk shit to him... here have my girl.. bwhah.. lol
It doesn't matter if he's swoll or not, you stand your fucking ground. I'd be trying to rip his eyes out or destroy his balls.

[wickedxbo1]

It doesn't matter if he's swoll or not, you stand your fucking ground. I'd be trying to rip his eyes out or destroy his balls.

yea it doesnt matter if hes swoll or not. i could care less.

[*J*]

i forgot to say.......

SHE DOESNT THINK SHE DID ANYTHING WRONG BUT LIE TO ME. MAN, THATS SOME SHIT.

she sounds like a dumb bitch. lying is one of the worst things you can do in a relationship.

[Replica]

Only takes one lie.

[the Asshats]

It doesn't matter if he's swoll or not, you stand your fucking ground. I'd be trying to rip his eyes out or destroy his balls.


Not worth it... It really isnt'.. If your girl ran to him.. obviously you kicking his ass won't change things, and you'd rather be with someone who won't run away...


But to add to the you can't fix broken trust... I was in a relationship for about a year..... in the first couple of months the girl did something to lose my trust and I always said I forgave her and tried to move on... but no matter what... I always remembered what she did..and it would NOT go away no matter what I tried to do... Broken trust can NOT be fixed.

[Replica]

I'm not saying fight, I'm just saying if the situation comes up, give it your all and fight with the passion that was lost.

[FatAbbot]

Not worth it... It really isnt'.. If your girl ran to him.. obviously you kicking his ass won't change things, and you'd rather be with someone who won't run away...

Agreed. Plus I'd like to keep the teeth I'd lose fighting that fool. How ya gonna get a new chick being a snaggle-tooth? :D

[the Asshats]

Agreed. Plus I'd like to keep the teeth I'd lose fighting that fool. How ya gonna get a new chick being a snaggle-tooth? :D

:roflmao:

[al]

:wrd: True to that... but anyways.. that foo is swoll... I'd be scared to talk shit to him... here have my girl.. bwhah.. lol

Crowbars do not discriminate.

I'm sorry it had to happen to you, dude. I don't know why people do such things just to get used pussy. To the perpetrator: Was it really worth it? How about get your own pussy? It's almost as bad as stealing someone's car, Jesus Christ, get some morals.

[wickedxbo1]

thanks people.....life goes on.....hopefully she will see this post and realize how dumb it was to throw a great relationship that she HAD. everyone says its cheating. everyone!

[Kinny]

nutkick: Kick her in the sac, and dump her!

[Replica]

thanks people.....life goes on.....hopefully she will see this post and realize how dumb it was to throw a great relationship that she HAD. everyone says its cheating. everyone!
Just remember, in her mind it's always yor fault. They'll twist it, and put it all on you.

[Stiggz]

take a gat and off folks at random walking down the street to vent...dont discrimintate...women, children, old people...fuck it...all lifeless bodies sound the same as their teeth crack on the pavement...the shell casings send a good burn to your skin as it falls on your arm...the screaming, the pain and anguish...it all sends a blood-boiling feeling of vengance that we all seek...the sound of ambulances being dispatched to the scene of havoc that YOU caused, could only be echoed in the whispers of the demons of hell...

either that or go find a one night stand or an ex-girlfriend and fuck the living nite away...

u chose

[3.5altima123]

damn that was scary

[95integraLS]

take a gat and off folks at random walking down the street to vent...dont discrimintate...women, children, old people...fuck it...all lifeless bodies sound the same as their teeth crack on the pavement...the shell casings send a good burn to your skin as it falls on your arm...the screaming, the pain and anguish...it all sends a blood-boiling feeling of vengance that we all seek...the sound of ambulances being dispatched to the scene of havoc that YOU caused, could only be echoed in the whispers of the demons of hell...

either that or go find a one night stand or an ex-girlfriend and fuck the living nite away...

u chose

:ugh2: uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuummm....yeah, what he said.

[SprayedAccord]

Damn this is totally fucked up shit..if it's true.

[FLiZO]

"reach back like a pimp and slap the hoe"

[Red]

"reach back like a pimp and slap the hoe"
dont forget the baby powder

[*J*]

"reach back like a pimp and slap the hoe"

"she said somethin that I couldn't believe so I grabbed the stupid bitch by her nappy ass weave" :roflmao:

[Chris]

I know dub ikeepitclean a fucking bitch.
Theres nothing i hate more than guys who fuck with other guys gf's intentionaly.
Fuck that ****** up with a baseball bat to both knee caps. Then chop off his balls and feed em to your dog. :rock:

[Replica]

"she said somethin that I couldn't believe so I grabbed the stupid bitch by her nappy ass weave" :roflmao:
2short is the shit

[FatAbbot]

2short is the shit

I thought it was eazy-e? (Sp?)

[Replica]

I thought it was eazy-e? (Sp?)
no sir. I think thats "pimpology" by 2 short.

[*J*]

I thought it was eazy-e? (Sp?)
It is. NWA 'The Legacy' Album.

[Replica]

It is. NWA 'The Legacy' Album.
Oh fuck, its boyz in the hood, my bad.

"its all about makin that GTA..."

[steph]

yall mothafuckers dont know jack shit....yall are assuming that something DID happen and thats why yall think its cheating...NOTHING happened....yes i know that i lied and thats fucked up....but all we did was HANG OUT with a few friends...shot some pool, watched a movie, just fucking chilled...henry never lets me go out and hang out with my guy friends.....i guess thats why i lied....u people dont even know the fucking story so STFU...henry stop broadcasting our personal shit to the entire internet community....this should be between US...wtf?!

[Replica]

Goddamn, another cheating steph! Fawk!

[FatAbbot]

I thought it was eazy-e? (Sp?)

I'm so white..... :ugh:

[b0y_br3ak3r]

if its on air, there will be comments. so don't get mad at the listeners. check yo self and him before you wreck yo self.

don't put yo shit on here if you can't handle the comments.

you no-nan

[FilthyHore]

if its on air, there will be comments. so don't get mad at the listeners. check yo self and him before you wreck yo self.

don't put yo shit on here if you can't handle the comments.

:wrd: you no-nan

[steph]

Goddamn, another cheating steph! Fawk!
i didnt CHEAT mothafucker

[steph]

if its on air, there will be comments. so don't get mad at the listeners. check yo self and him before you wreck yo self.

don't put yo shit on here if you can't handle the comments.

you no-nan
man fuck u..u dont know SHIT...stfu

[steph]

:wrd: you no-nan
fuck u too

[b0y_br3ak3r]

IBTFL!!! :rock:

IN BEFORE THE FUCKIN LOCK! :D

[Replica]

i didnt CHEAT mothafucker
Whatever...scandalous either way....

[FatAbbot]

This is getting good :thumb:

And here's a preemptive "Fuck you too!"

[b0y_br3ak3r]

man fuck u..u dont know SHIT...stfu
wow....gangsta

and then we wait for the 3rd party

*sits back eating popcorn*

[FilthyHore]

man fuck u..u dont know SHIT...stfu

you and yo' weak ass man put ya'lls shit on blast...so deal with it. you just feelin' moted right now after fuckin with that "fob" as you called him.

loose lips sink ships--we'll call yo' pussy the titanic.

[steph]

Whatever...scandalous either way....
yea...it was wrong for me to lie...thats the fucking first time ive ever done some shady shit like that...but man...nothing happened

[steph]

there were no intentions involved

[Replica]

Not that hard to answer a phone...

[steph]

Not that hard to answer a phone...
i didnt know what to say....i already knew hed be mad....

[Replica]

i didnt know what to say....i already knew hed be mad....
hard to talk with a pee pee in the mouth.

[FilthyHore]

aaron, quit tryin' to coddle the dumb bitch. she made her bed now that loose ass can lie in it :rofl:

[b0y_br3ak3r]

ya'll need to work on that then, if you scared to let him know you hang out with guys. if he can't trust you hanging out with other guys, fuckin let each other go. if ya'll did, you wouldn't be here now telling us to stfu.

[Replica]

aaron, quit tryin' to coddle the dumb bitch. she made her bed now that loose ass can lie in it :rofl:
im trying to single out the variables so i know how to correctly insult her. :)

[steph]

henry has lied to me before too...and i was fucking hurt....i just became a hypocrite

[steph]

ya'll need to work on that then, if you scared to let him know you hang out with guys. if he can't trust you hanging out with other guys, fuckin let each other go. if ya'll did, you wouldn't be here now telling us to stfu.
man we've been through SO much...its hard to let that go

[*J*]

i didnt know what to say....i already knew hed be mad....
So being SCANDALOUS is better?

[Replica]

henry has lied to me before too...and i was fucking hurt....i just became a hypocrite
2 wrongs make a right, i keep forgetting that "hateful bitch" math.

[Boo]

hard to talk with a pee pee in the mouth.
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man that shit made my day right there :roflmao:

[Kinny]

yea...it was wrong for me to lie...thats the fucking first time ive ever done some shady shit like that...but man...nothing happened

Think about how you would feel if your ex-bf lied to you.. You lied, and once will fuck up a relationship..

[JDIAZ]

YOUNGSTERS!

If ur too scared to tell him u shouldnt be with him. That lie that you told broke ur credit, no one will believe you and this dude should forget you. like filthy said you made ur bed.

[steph]

YOUNGSTERS!

If ur too scared to tell him u shouldnt be with him. That lie that you told broke ur credit, no one will believe you and this dude should forget you. like filthy said you made ur bed.
ok..........................

[*J*]

Triflin'

[JHX]

you and yo' weak ass man put ya'lls shit on blast...so deal with it. you just feelin' moted right now after fuckin with that "fob" as you called him.

loose lips sink ships--we'll call yo' pussy the titanic.
lmao :rock: imma have to remember that one

[steph]

Think about how you would feel if your ex-bf lied to you.. You lied, and once will fuck up a relationship..
yea....

[Replica]

I'm so happy to be single, bitches like this can't hurt me anymore. :D

[the Asshats]

Okay.... so you knew he would be mad... and you went out anyways....

LOL @ Replica's comment.

[al]

yall mothafuckers dont know jack shit....yall are assuming that something DID happen and thats why yall think its cheating...NOTHING happened....yes i know that i lied and thats fucked up....but all we did was HANG OUT with a few friends...shot some pool, watched a movie, just fucking chilled...henry never lets me go out and hang out with my guy friends.....i guess thats why i lied....u people dont even know the fucking story so STFU...henry stop broadcasting our personal shit to the entire internet community....this should be between US...wtf?!

Yall = you all ... but I wrote the following so I guess you are also guilty of generalizing.

She might not have cheated, but she did lie like a motherfucker, and that's reason enough to break up, so good going.

You should know better than to hide and lie, especially if it has something to do with the opposite sex. You expect someone to think otherwise? What's funny is you chose a movie and a couple of games of pool over your boyfriend, how trivial is that? This is probably the first time you got busted, but maybe since you are a liar you're probably guilty of other things?

[steph]

Okay.... so you knew he would be mad... and you went out anyways....

LOL @ Replica's comment.
yea i did....he always gets mad if i even suggest going out with one of my guy friends

[JDIAZ]

Haha why lie? If he dosent like you hanging with other dudes (whitch most guys dont) leave him. why lie? Im assuming ur young cause ur still sneaking out. Your too young to be stuck with one person.

[steph]

Yall = you all ... but I wrote the following so I guess you are also guilty of generalizing.



You should know better than to hide and lie, especially if it has something to do with the opposite sex. You expect someone to think otherwise? What's funny is you chose a movie and a couple of games of pool over your boyfriend, how trivial is that? This is probably the first time you got busted, but maybe since you are a liar you're probably guilty of other things?
This is the first time i have ever done some shit like this.....i knew hed get mad...but i didnt think hed get THIS mad and break up with me

[steph]

Haha why lie? If he dosent you hanging with other dudes (whitch most guys dont) leave him. why lie? Im assuming ur young cause ur still sneaking out. Your too young to be stuck with one person.
im 19....weve been together ever since i was 15

[JDIAZ]

yeah what Im saying you have been together for awhile if you want to try other people just break up and go out with others. Dont bring some one else down.

[steph]

yeah what Im saying you have been together for awhile if you want to try other people just break up and go out with others. Dont bring some one else down.
i never had any intention to try and get to know other guys....this guy was the love of my life....i thought he was the one.....

[JDIAZ]

Best of luck to you and the other dude!

As long as you learn something from this(in a positive way-like not doing this) Its just a bump on ur hwy of life.

[Replica]

This is the first time i have ever done some shit like this.....i knew hed get mad...but i didnt think hed get THIS mad and break up with me
Sigh, my only attempt at sane advice....


You've been with this guy forever so I assume you love him. Yet you are holding some shit he did a long time ago against him. When you truely love someone you don't do that shit, it's called forgiveness. Second, you think that because of some shit in the past you have the right for "revenge." Why would you seek such resolution from someone you love? It doesn't give you the right to do something shitty in return. When a guy's gf is out all night and we can't get a hold of her, we go crazy because we think she's hurt. Not because we're creepy and jealous.

I dunno about the guy (sorry, forgot the name, long post) but i dont' think I'd want to be with someone that has NO idea what love is, or about.

[al]

It's pretty courageous to come on here and speak your mind, but I think what's done is done, and you should move on and start over with someone ... especially someone who is not on this forum.

It will take a big man to take you back. If he's got a problem with you hanging out with your guy friends, and you can't let go of that, then you two shouldn't be together, simple as that.

[Kinny]

Sigh, my only attempt at sane advice....


You've been with this guy forever so I assume you love him. Yet you are holding some shit he did a long time ago against him. When you truely love someone you don't do that shit, it's called forgiveness. Second, you think that because of some shit in the past you have the right for "revenge." Why would you seek such resolution from someone you love? It doesn't give you the right to do something shitty in return. When a guy's gf is out all night and we can't get a hold of her, we go crazy because we think she's hurt. Not because we're creepy and jealous.

I dunno about the guy (sorry, forgot the name, long post) but i dont' think I'd want to be with someone that has NO idea what love is, or about.

So sad, yet so true!

[overkill]

He could just be acting on a first reaction by breaking up. You both have been wrong,if in fact he has lied to, two wrongs dont make a right but things can be worked out too. I have been married for 4 years and shit goes wrong sometimes but if you are both serious enough in this relationship then work it out. You only grow stronger and it helps if you do it together. To some 19 is young but you know what, I was married at that age to the love of my life and we are still together! :)

[steph]

theres always two sides to the story...hear me out

[dsolnot2run]

what i dont understand steph is if nothing was happening and all you were doing was hanging out then y not invite your b/f?? thats what makes me believe that somthing did happend

movie=2hrs
pool halls generally close at 2am
from the story you got home at 8am

ummm busted busta

and for the b/f stay up and atleast you found out....

[TopSeller]

if the bitch cheats on u either u slap that ho to release yo anger or u fuck her mother but either one u do in the end u must leave her and move on

[CIVTEC93]

man since i actually know ikeepitclean i wonder if i know these two other ppl

hmmmmmmmmm *shrugs*

[steph]

what i dont understand steph is if nothing was happening and all you were doing was hanging out then y not invite your b/f?? thats what makes me believe that somthing did happend

movie=2hrs
pool halls generally close at 2am
from the story you got home at 8am

ummm busted busta

and for the b/f stay up and atleast you found out....
friend had a pool table at the house..we didnt go to a pool hall

[rene]

i had something like this happen to me before too...

"he was just a friend, we went to the club and hung out till 2am....i PROMISE nothing happened"

[steph]

what i dont understand steph is if nothing was happening and all you were doing was hanging out then y not invite your b/f?? thats what makes me believe that somthing did happend

movie=2hrs
pool halls generally close at 2am
from the story you got home at 8am

ummm busted busta

and for the b/f stay up and atleast you found out....
friend had a pool table at the house..we didnt go to a pool hall....

[FatAbbot]

i had something like this happen to me before too...

"he was just a friend, we went to the club and hung out till 2am....i PROMISE nothing happened"

Here's my sexist statement for the day:

Situations like this remind me why I'm glad to be a man. Women can't lie for shit when confronted with situations like this. You can read 'em like a book.

[overkill]

One more thing...to both of you...get off the internet and quit taking peoples advice you dont know, inlcuding mine, and work it out or get over it. Life's to short.

[steph]

i had something like this happen to me before too...

"he was just a friend, we went to the club and hung out till 2am....i PROMISE nothing happened"
But you have to understand....i loved this guy with all my heart...everyone knew...i never had any intention to do anything....it never even crossed my mind that what i did would be considered cheating...if i knew he would break up with me bc of THIS...i would have never done it

[al]

I thought women were more clever at lying? Men get into trouble more often because we can't lie if our lives depended on it.

Hence, I find it odd that there aren't more female politicians.

[SprayedAccord]

This is my opinion, This girl has been with this dude since she was 15. That's fucken damn young, so they been together for 4 years now. God dman that's a long ass time. I think it's time for her to explore other guys.
He's probaly the only guy she's ever been with and crap. She's young and wants to know what other guys are like, I'm not impling in a sexual sense at all. I dont' get why young people are ever in longterm relationships. They should explore when they are teenagers and be with other people. I don't mean have sex and crap but to get to know other people. So steph and the dude who made this thread, look at it this way, you guys are both really young, and you have a whole lifetime to find that special someone. Explore the world.

[steph]

he should have never posted any of our business in the first place....but i want him to read this...bc he wont even hear me out on the phone...whatever i say wont even change the way hes feeling right now...all he does is call me names and bitch...what can i do? what can i say? ...i hope you read this henry

[FatAbbot]

...if i knew he would break up with me bc of THIS...i would have never done it

That's why you should be honest with him in the first place. He might have gotten pissed at you hanging out with this other fool, but he wouldn't have broken up with you.

But being dishonest, not answering your phone and then coming home from an "all-nighter". What the fuck did you expect? Laughable really, you're lucky you didn't get pimp slapped....

[Replica]

Still haven't confronted anything I've said...

[FatAbbot]

I thought women were more clever at lying? Men get into trouble more often because we can't lie if our lives depended on it.

Hence, I find it odd that there aren't more female politicians.

I can lie with the best of them. Put me on the spot anytime and I can come up with a feasible explanation and keep a straight face. I don't do this with my wife however, but I got skillz :D

[steph]

Still haven't confronted anything I've said...
what did you say

[Replica]

what did you say
uh, the big post about knowing what love is, one page back. Can't miss it.

[Stiggz]

lying = a shoe in the ass

[Jamiroquai]

man, im not gonna read all these responses, but all i have to say man is fuck that shit. If she lied to you once then she'll do it again. What kind of gf of 4yrs does some shit like that? Do yourself a favor dude and drop her, for all you know this probably wasnt her first time doing this.

[Jamiroquai]

i had something like this happen to me before too...

"he was just a friend, we went to the club and hung out till 2am....i PROMISE nothing happened"

lol i remember that, what ever happened with that whole thing?

[steph]

man, im not gonna read all these responses, but all i have to say man is fuck that shit. If she lied to you once then she'll do it again. What kind of gf of 4yrs does some shit like that? Do yourself a favor dude and drop her, for all you know this probably wasnt her first time doing this.
whatever..u should at least tried to read my side of the story

[steph]

Sigh, my only attempt at sane advice....


You've been with this guy forever so I assume you love him. Yet you are holding some shit he did a long time ago against him. When you truely love someone you don't do that shit, it's called forgiveness. Second, you think that because of some shit in the past you have the right for "revenge." Why would you seek such resolution from someone you love? It doesn't give you the right to do something shitty in return. When a guy's gf is out all night and we can't get a hold of her, we go crazy because we think she's hurt. Not because we're creepy and jealous.

I dunno about the guy (sorry, forgot the name, long post) but i dont' think I'd want to be with someone that has NO idea what love is, or about.
i really didnt do it to get him back....but i guess it just looks that way

[Jamiroquai]

whatever..u should at least tried to read my side of the story

i dont want to read your side. your bf called you numerous times, you didnt pick up, or bother to tell him you were sneaking out, not to mention with other guys, on top of that coming home with another guy.

[Stiggz]

whatever..u should at least tried to read my side of the story

u just said your side of the story....exactly how the wickedkid explained it, only difference is that you said "nothing happened"...

you just leave yourself open for speculation...no answering phones, no calls, lying, hanging with other guys...im mean...wtf did you expect the kid to think!? fkn christ...you think because you didnt answer the phone it was gonna get better? like he'd forget about it come tomorrow morning? no no no....

if you did or didnt do anything is none of our business..but you cant blame the kid for breaking up with you...lying is straight up bullshit...there are reasons why people lie and the reason you gave us smells like a crock of shit..."because he would be mad"...LMMFAO!!!!!! gimme a fucking break...yea, like he'd be happy and thrilled to talk to you the next day...lmao...think before you do anything else in the future shorty...

[al]

...bc he wont even hear me out on the phone...

It hurts when your S.O. doesn't want to pick up the phone, doesn't it? :rolleyes:

I can lie with the best of them. Put me on the spot anytime and I can come up with a feasible explanation and keep a straight face. I don't do this with my wife however, but I got skillz :D

You lie!!!!!

[TopSeller]

one more thing u know wat song goes pefect wit this situation

Ron Eisley-- Busted

[Replica]

It hurts when your S.O. doesn't want to pick up the phone, doesn't it? :rolleyes:

Fuckin owned :rock: (only time i will say that)

[steph]

i dont want to read your side. your bf called you numerous times, you didnt pick up, or bother to tell him you were sneaking out, not to mention with other guys, on top of that coming home with another guy.
ok...i dont know..i just think you're being narrow minded....you dont know me...you dont know how i am....you cant just judge me like that and assume stuff happened bc nothing did

[al]

Fuckin owned :rock: (only time i will say that)

Replica, I would like for you to say it again. With your help, we can add many more wonderful pages to this family oriented thread!

[steph]

never thought i'd feel this way...but after all this...i feel like maybe we really SHOULD go our separate ways...if its meant to be...we'll come back to each other...but for now...things dont look good for us at all

[TopSeller]

ok...i dont know..i just think you're being narrow minded....you dont know me...you dont know how i am....you cant just judge me like that and assume stuff happened bc nothing did

how can u be so single minded

"your bf called you numerous times, you didnt pick up, or bother to tell him you were sneaking out, not to mention with other guys, on top of that coming home with another guy."

^^ thats all the info someone needs to come up with a conclusion of "ima dump that bitch" dont mean to call u a bitch or wateva but wat u did was not rite in anyway even tho he may have done something in the past

2 wongs dont make a rite

[dsolnot2run]

i still dont understand why u didnt just invite him???and why u would tell the other guy your single?

dumb dumb dumb thats all i know... iether way no dont get back with her...my opinion

[dsolnot2run]

never thought i'd feel this way...but after all this...i feel like maybe we really SHOULD go our separate ways...if its meant to be...we'll come back to each other...but for now...things dont look good for us at all



smart for both of you...

[TopSeller]

i got 75 dollars that she and ikeepitclean start to "hang out"

150 that they smash within 2 months

[steph]

how can u be so single minded

"your bf called you numerous times, you didnt pick up, or bother to tell him you were sneaking out, not to mention with other guys, on top of that coming home with another guy."

^^ thats all the info someone needs to come up with a conclusion of "ima dump that bitch" dont mean to call u a bitch or wateva but wat u did was not rite in anyway even tho he may have done something in the past

2 wongs dont make a rite
yea i know....what i did is 10 times worse than what he did.....but still i would have liked it if you read my side of the story...

[steph]

i still dont understand why u didnt just invite him???and why u would tell the other guy your single?

dumb dumb dumb thats all i know... iether way no dont get back with her...my opinion
i didnt tell the other guy i was single...he even said so himself that i was whooped over henry....and i know for a fact henry would never even think about hanging out with one of my guy friends...

[dsolnot2run]

i got 75 dollars that she and ikeepitclean start to "hang out"

150 that they smash within 2 months



:roflmao: wrong but :roflmao:

[rene]

lol i remember that, what ever happened with that whole thing?



we still talk, but we're more friends now :rolleyes:

[TopSeller]

ignore my post steph about the bet, i read ur side i understand it but seriously

how u would feel if u didnt get caught? in my opinion u gettin caught was heaven sent in other words it was probably meant to be

im gonna be nice for once and just say move on and try to learn from ur mistakes

[steph]

ignore my post steph about the bet, i read ur side i understand it but seriously

how u would feel if u didnt get caught? in my opinion u gettin caught was heaven sent in other words it was probably meant to be

im gonna be nice for once and just say move on and try to learn from ur mistakes
ok i know this may sound stupid as hell...but i was gonna tell him that i went out the next day...yea its the day after it happened....but still...yea that was my plan...

[steph]

henrys response was...."so if i fucked a girl i'll just tell you the next day?" i know that even if i did tell him the next day...it wouldnt dismiss anything i did...but i felt like it was better than nothing

[DJ®]

i didnt tell the other guy i was single...he even said so himself that i was whooped over henry....and i know for a fact henry would never even think about hanging out with one of my guy friends...

Hmmm, I can't say what I believe or not because I don't know yall, plus I'm biased because I've known many girls who were in this same situation and come to find out much later, they actually did cheat........BUT:

In general......if a girl cheated on her boyfriend, she would NOT admit it to a message board, more or less her own boyfriend.

Just my .2............

[TopSeller]

forget about it steph wat is done is done john titor aint hear to take u back in the past and correct urself, just say ur goodbyes, cry a little, take some evaclear and try to make the next day better for urself

[steph]

well..just wanna thank those of u who actually tried to hear me out at least...and for all the advice

[steph]

i cant even imagine him being with someone else...

[TopSeller]

i cant even imagine him being with someone else...

u better start and u should also think about being with someone else because the way it sounds now

yall mite not being seeing each other for a while

[never Ender]

you oughta be ashamed of yourself little girl.

[Red]

cack damn that was alot to read..

steph, didnt i say you two were gonna start hangin out? hahaha

but yea, even if he broke up with you, i garentee you guys will be back together within 2 weeks, GAREN FUCKIN TEE!!! that nugga cant stand on his own two feet with out his "trophy" to show off.. so you guys will be back together.. but if you think it was bad before, its gonna be even worse..

and to ikeepitclean, i give you props for not sayin a cacdamn thing up in here mang,, but like it old you earlier.. do what u gotta do!

oh yea and steph, how bout we hang out the next time u sneak out :hs: i dont give a damn if you lie or cheat on me :D

[wickedxbo1]

1. lying to me
2. going out with other guys (just met him and could of gotten raped) or something terrible could of happen
3. talking to him one the phone while im at work trying to provide for us
4. she had a couple drinks!!

the list can go on....

[TopSeller]

cack damn that was alot to read..

steph, didnt i say you two were gonna start hangin out? hahaha

but yea, even if he broke up with you, i garentee you guys will be back together within 2 weeks, GAREN FUCKIN TEE!!! that nugga cant stand on his own two feet with out his "trophy" to show off.. so you guys will be back together.. but if you think it was bad before, its gonna be even worse..

and to ikeepitclean, i give you props for not sayin a cacdamn thing up in here mang,, but like it old you earlier.. do what u gotta do!

oh yea and steph, how bout we hang out the next time u sneak out :hs: i dont give a damn if you lie or cheat on me :D

someones is lookin to et some skin

[Kinny]

cack damn that was alot to read..

steph, didnt i say you two were gonna start hangin out? hahaha

but yea, even if he broke up with you, i garentee you guys will be back together within 2 weeks, GAREN FUCKIN TEE!!! that nugga cant stand on his own two feet with out his "trophy" to show off.. so you guys will be back together.. but if you think it was bad before, its gonna be even worse..

and to ikeepitclean, i give you props for not sayin a cacdamn thing up in here mang,, but like it old you earlier.. do what u gotta do!

oh yea and steph, how bout we hang out the next time u sneak out :hs: i dont give a damn if you lie or cheat on me :D

NuKonzRolla02 = Home-wrecker #2

lol

[wickedxbo1]

all the guy friends she has.......
1. has liked her before
2. or still do....

[Kinny]

all the guy friends she has.......
1. has liked her before
2. or still do....

Unfortunately most guys think of one thing and one thing only when they have a "girl" friend to hang out with..

[Kandy suprA]

1. lying to me
2. going out with other guys (just met him and could of gotten raped) or something terrible could of happen
3. talking to him one the phone while im at work trying to provide for us
4. she had a couple drinks!!

the list can go on....

:(

we were really worried about you steph...

[wickedxbo1]

the only reason i posted situation to get opinions since she doesnt think she did anything wrong.

is 10 pages of yes did wrong in some sort of aspect enough?

[Red]

someones is lookin to et some skin
wtf does that mean?

[wickedxbo1]

jt......how many people were worried about if something happened to her? she could of gotten herself into alot of trouble. how could i have broke it to her parents that something happened? late night drinking with a new guy and other guy friends? come on now......its not a perfect world. shit could happen.

[Red]

jt......how many people were worried about if something happened to her? she could of gotten herself into alot of trouble. how could i have broke it to her parents that something happened? late night drinking with a new guy and other guy friends? come on now......its not a perfect world. shit could happen.
so you dont trust her enough to know that she can take care of herself and think bout shit before putting herself into a bad situation? you dont think she's capable of thinkin all those things out?
*edit* i thought you said she was your girlfriend, not your daughter.

[Kinny]

so you dont trust her enough to know that she can take care of herself and think bout shit before putting herself into a bad situation? you dont think she's capable of thinkin all those things out?
*edit* i thought you said she was your girlfriend, not your daughter.

Dude, don't be an asshole! If you have a girlfriend and found out that she snuck out to hang out with guys she barely knew, you would be shitting bricks too..

[Red]

Dude, don't be an asshole! If you have a girlfriend and found out that she snuck out to hang out with guys she barely knew, you would be shitting bricks too..
you dont know me, you dont know how i handle things, so dont automatically assume that i would be shittin bricks. thank you. i made a valid point. ignore my attempts to be funny real quick and feel me on this.

[Kinny]

you dont know me, you dont know how i handle things, so dont automatically assume that i would be shittin bricks. thank you. i made a valid point. ignore my attempts to be funny real quick and feel me on this.

I don't like feeling anyone on anything. So quit being funny.. :rolleyes:

[Kandy suprA]

jt......how many people were worried about if something happened to her? she could of gotten herself into alot of trouble. how could i have broke it to her parents that something happened? late night drinking with a new guy and other guy friends? come on now......its not a perfect world. shit could happen.

enough to make baby jesus cry...

[Red]

uh.. ok..

she's not a lil child, im sure she's capable of takin care of herself. yea he has a right to be mad at her for lying to her, but all that shit, tryn to make her feel bad sayin they were worryin and shit, somethin coulda happend blah blah blah.. does that mean you dont let her go to the post office by herself either? somethn bad could happen there, has before. obviously he still cares bout her. jus figure out the right reason why he should be mad and work it out, like i said, i garentee they're back together within 2 weeks.

[al]

Dude, don't be an asshole! If you have a girlfriend and found out that she snuck out to hang out with guys she barely knew, you would be shitting bricks too..

:stupid: sounds like he can take the subject lightly because he's not on the receiving end. Nothing against any of you guys, it's just my observation that the people who knew about this kind of instigated by pulling a bitch move on the girl's boyfriend. And then to coming on to his thread and clowning him is kind of insensitive.

So you got your chick-friend back at the expense of two people's broken hearts. Who's happy at this very moment? Only the dudes who snuck her out of her window? She's free now, but she's not happy. The ex-bf is definitely not happy. And JT has a tiny penis.

[syvikraicer]

Archives!!!

[Kinny]

uh.. ok..

does that mean you dont let her go to the post office by herself either? somethn bad could happen there, has before. obviously he still cares bout her. jus figure out the right reason why he should be mad and work it out, like i said, i garentee they're back together within 2 weeks.

Going to the post office and going out with potential threats is complete different things.. So don't twist things around okay.. Here is the simple thing.. She went out with a couple of guys she barely knew.. She lied about it by telling her ex-bf she's going to bed. End of story.. Guy is fucking pissed and worry at the same time.. How much more simple do you want to get?? And you know what I think?? I think you want to get into her pants.. You've been leghumping every female on this forum since the day you joined.. Joking or not, doing so on this thread is fucking uncool!

[Red]

Going to the post office and going out with potential threats is complete different things.. So don't twist things around okay.. Here is the simple thing.. She went out with a couple of guys she barely knew.. She lied about it by telling her ex-bf she's going to bed. End of story.. Guy is fucking pissed and worry at the same time.. How much more simple do you want to get?? And you know what I think?? I think you want to get into her pants.. You've been leghumping every female on this forum since the day you joined.. Joking or not, doing so on this thread is fucking uncool!
whatever d00d, you're still not seeing my point so i'll quit now. and yea i do leghump alot, and most of the girls i do are my friends that i hang out with regularly. as for doing it in this thread, jus tried to lighten the stiff mood. but thanks for being so observent of my leghumping. i feel special
*edit* one more thing, theres practically a potential threat ANY where you go now a days.

[_max_POWER]

damn i bought a CD player from ikeepitclean. steph you wanna autograph it for me? ok that was my lame attempt at humor. well my bit of advice is wickedbo1: move on man. ive tried for 5 years to work things out with a girl that broke my trust. doesnt happen. steph: i dont know what to say. you sound EXACTLY like my ex. dont take this the wrong way but you really need to grow up and learn to just be honest with your S.O. if you really do love him then you have so much sucking up to do its not even funny. sorry this happened to both of you.

[syvikraicer]

but seriously......you two should give each other some time to calm ur nerves and shit.....when u two are calm then you guys need to talk this shit out...if u two get back together then thats great but if u two decide to break it off at least keep it on good terms

of all the facts that was given by HIM....everyone starts feeling for the guy and bashing the broad.....just listen out to what SHE has to say as well....let her present her facts....let the facts speak for themselves....the first thing that comes to peoples minds is sex.....how do u really know that she had sex with the dude? were u guys there to actually see it? now it was wrong for her to lie.....thats all we know so dont go assuming that the gangbang train was coming through at that get together.....just give each other time and hear out each others stories and not start basing things on assumptions or speculations

[Kinny]

whatever d00d, you're still not seeing my point so i'll quit now. and yea i do leghump alot, and most of the girls i do are my friends that i hang out with regularly. as for doing it in this thread, jus tried to lighten the stiff mood. but thanks for being so observent of my leghumping. i feel special
*edit* one more thing, theres practically a potential threat ANY where you go now a days.

You could have done so in another un-intrusive manner.. Maybe you just need to learn how to break the moment a little bit better.. Not everything has to be sexual like you perceive it to be..

[Red]

You could have done so in another un-intrusive manner.. Maybe you just need to learn how to break the moment a little bit better.. Not everything has to be sexual like you perceive it to be..
and how do you know how i perceive things?

[steph]

:(

we were really worried about you steph...
im sorry....i know i fucked up

[Kinny]

By you leghumping every girl on this forum.. Duh!! lol. Sorry dude, I guess that's the big difference between you and me.. Homie don't play that..

[steph]

the only reason i posted situation to get opinions since she doesnt think she did anything wrong.

is 10 pages of yes did wrong in some sort of aspect enough?
no...i know what i did was wrong...but i didnt consider it cheating bc i had no intention of doing anything and we didnt DO anything

[Red]

By you leghumping every girl on this forum.. Duh!! lol. Sorry dude, I guess that's the big difference between you and me.. Homie don't play that..
well if you're going to judge a book by its cover then do your thing boss. :thumb:

[tegteg]

i said give her a second chance! i would, but then again i'm a sweet and understanding guy! lol

[Kinny]

well if you're going to judge a book by its cover then do your thing boss. :thumb:

You're right.. I'm doing so by your actions on the forum.. That may not be accurate, but then again I have never met you and don't really care to.. So until the day I do meet you, I'm going to percieve the way you are by your actions on here.. :thumb:

[Kandy suprA]

and to u NuKonz...

you obviously dont know how harsh this world can be. being out late with someone you hardly know, and having no one else to depend on during a time where bad things can happen is a BIG FUCKING DEAL. we dont know how this guy really is....for all we know he could be 1 of the 1,456,728 pycho-ass niggas in this world. a good friend of mine was killed almost the same way this could of turned out. you may have seen her on the news, her name was Michelle Millare (RIP). for only information and respect for her grave, the worst, unimaginable thing that can happen to a human being HAPPENED TO HER.

being that we knew steph very well we know her values and we figured that worrying her parents would be the last thing on her mind. i dont know about you but if my girl was missing for 8 hours, i'd raise hell. love is love...wy cant he fucking worry about his girlfriend as much as he can worry about his sister?? sure that kind of love is different but who is to state what the boundary of love is?? the way i see it, looks like you'll be in line along with the rest of the 50 year-old, lonely niggas without a clue in this world...

[Kinny]

i said give her a second chance! i would, but then again i'm a sweet and understanding guy! lol

lol.. Sometimes being sweet and understand will get your heart broken into a million pieces..

[Red]

like i said, do your thing boss.

edwin, you never gave me a second chance :(

[Kandy suprA]

:stupid: sounds like he can take the subject lightly because he's not on the receiving end. Nothing against any of you guys, it's just my observation that the people who knew about this kind of instigated by pulling a bitch move on the girl's boyfriend. And then to coming on to his thread and clowning him is kind of insensitive.

So you got your chick-friend back at the expense of two people's broken hearts. Who's happy at this very moment? Only the dudes who snuck her out of her window? She's free now, but she's not happy. The ex-bf is definitely not happy. And JT has a tiny penis.


negative. elephant trunk baby, elephant trunk...lolol.

[protegeownzj00]

if you didn't do anything, he's getting mad over nothing. wtf kind of bf demands to know where and who his gf is with every second of the day? why the fuck would you want to be with a guy that doesn't let you hang out with your friends, regardless of gender?

the only reason this situation became a problem is that you had to lie about your plans so he wouldn't get mad at you becaue you were hanging out with friends-that were guys. he sure does give you the benefit of the doubt huh?

fuck that.

[protegeownzj00]

oh yea-

if you did cheat, all i can say is karma.

[dsolnot2run]

^ ok pimp what would you do if your g/f came home at 8am with another man?? not trying to tlk shit but well just wondering??

[Kinny]

^ ok pimp what would you do if your g/f came home at 8am with another man?? not trying to tlk shit but well just wondering??

He would be chillin like a villian like the pimp that he is.. :roflmao:

[dsolnot2run]

lol right while his gurl is with another guy cool pimp there...

[Kinny]

Exactly! I guess some people just wont understand until they've experienced it for themselves..

[syvikraicer]

^ ok pimp what would you do if your g/f came home at 8am with another man?? not trying to tlk shit but well just wondering??

ever think that he was her only transportation home? if he picked her up well of course he had to take her home......do u expect for her to walk her ass home?

[dsolnot2run]

ahh call the b/f duh he was up as u can see....

[protegeownzj00]

damn, you do realize men and women do other things than smash right?

oh and i wouldn't be waiting for my girl, cause she can do her own thing without me, i don't own her.

[syvikraicer]

ahh call the b/f duh he was up as u can see....

ok....he gets there...beats the shit outta the dude....or the dude and his friends beat the shit out of him.....then eventually he finds out nothing happened between them two....

[protegeownzj00]

would it be ok if the bf hung out with some of his friends -even if they were girls?

[Kinny]

damn, you do realize men and women do other things than smash right?

oh and i wouldn't be waiting for my girl, cause she can do her own thing without me, i don't own her.

You're missing the point slick!

1) gf goes with guys.
2) No one knows what guys intentions are toward her
3) bf didn't know wtf is going on and worry sick.
4) bf is pissed that she lied to him to go out with guys with unknown intention.

None of the points above mentioned bf owning gf. So that is out of the question.. And if the guy is someone they mutually knew, then it might be a different story...

[_allstar]

once a cheater.
always a cheater.

from my experiences...

[dsolnot2run]

ok playa cant wait to see your thread one day :bawling: "i got home and she showed up with this guy in a del sol and now im so sad..." duede watch your girls this aint the old days nemore bitches are out there just to fuck now...i know girls/and guys dont smash all the time im with my homegirl all the time and all we do is chill... but we dont hang out till 8am knowing she has a b/f to go home to..u have to respect the boyfriend..

[protegeownzj00]

my point is he's mad cause she left with friends w/o telling him. its beside the point that he doesn't know the friends well. its a lot of mistrust on his part. apparently she can't go places with people he doesn't "know/approve of."

[protegeownzj00]

u have to respect the boyfriend..

which is why you don't mess around. what's wrong with chilling til the wee hours? as long as the SO knows then its cool. i understand he may be worried in this situation, but he's only worried cause he's being a cock and not letting her hang out with her friends: therefore she has to lie.

[tegteg]

lol.. Sometimes being sweet and understand will get your heart broken into a million pieces..
true! and it happen with the same girl i gave a second chance to! lol
but i'm sure this couple will work it out, IF they really love eachother!

[syvikraicer]

the situation is odd.....but how do u know for a fact that they smashed? all it is is based on his interpretation of the situation.....she could've been actually chillin with some dudes....there are girls out there that hang out with guys on a friendly basis.....only thing we know is that she lied to her bf about not telling her where she is going out and who she is going out with.....thats all we know

[tegteg]

like i said, do your thing boss.

edwin, you never gave me a second chance :(thats because when called you! you never pick up the phone!! lol

[Kinny]

Well, wait!! 1st was curiosity, then it he became worried, then it's mistrust..

Granted yes.. I have "girl" friends who I occassionally hang out with til late at night at a pool hall or something.. But that's because she knew me very well.. She more like my sister, and she's always smart enough to have friends go along with her to back her up in case if situation becomes sticky..
Going out alone with people you barely knew is just plain dumb imo..

[dsolnot2run]

^lol

[syvikraicer]

whenever situations like this arrive we always think of the worst possible situation....our brains go crazy and we think of all kinds of shit....stepback a bit and face reality...first get the facts straight before u start coming to conclusions

[koncept1]

lol....saw mr "ikeepitclean" viewing this thread...guess he's too much of a pussy to even reply. :roflmao: but not a pussy to pick up someone else's girl eh...you a busta in my books fgt.

[dsolnot2run]

whenever situations like this arrive we always think of the worst possible situation....our brains go crazy and we think of all kinds of shit....stepback a bit and face reality...first get the facts straight before u start coming to conclusions



fact1-g/f lied
fact2-she did not leav with this niga till like 11pm
fact3- i might be mistaken but the met not to long ago
fact4- she did not answer the phone after sevral times
fact5-the girl got back at 8am


im sorry but if this was a case everything would lead to cheating