Could you see yourself with a VERY VERY religious person?

[R.J.]

Let's say you were not very religious. You meet a person who is funny, beautiful, interesting and has a lot in common with you etc. You hit it off big time. You think this person has the potential to start a relationship...

Next you find out they are very very religious and goes to church every chance they get, participates in all kinds of church activities and so on. No sex before marriage, praying, no cussing etc.

Knowing that you are NOT that kind of person to do such things could you envision yourself in a long-term relationship with this particular person?

Discuss. :dunno:

[Leo]

If she's a wealthy Jew, sure.

[baodownbia]

i think i'd still go for it..u could slowly try to change her if u want right?

[Anti Muscle]

i dont think so0, but who knows...

[tnn]

will attempt to do the religious things with her and at the same time try to bring the freak out in her. :Goofy:

[lspoweredteg]

in the long run that would be the perfect girl...u wont have to worry about getting cheated on(hopefully) but now just isnt the time...well im 18 and now isnt the time for me

[lspoweredteg]

but on the other hand if it happened to me i wouldnt just say no because of her religious background

[R.J.]

i think i'd still go for it..u could slowly try to change her if u want right?
But what if she tries to change you?

*I really do think that it would be a better lifestyle, but in all honesty I couldn't see myself in a relationship with a person like that. Friends definately, more than that no.

[AWD]

Let's say you were not very religious. You meet a person who is funny, beautiful, interesting and has a lot in common with you etc. You hit it off big time. You think this person has the potential to start a relationship...

Next you find out they are very very religious and goes to church every chance they get, participates in all kinds of church activities and so on. No sex before marriage, praying, no cussing etc.

Knowing that you are NOT that kind of person to do such things could you envision yourself in a long-term relationship with this particular person?

Discuss. :dunno:


Nope. Been there. Its annoying as shit when, after yall kiss, she starts panicking and HAS to go to confession the next day. Why start a long term relationship with all that when it would annoy the ever living crap out of you on a daily basis? You shouldnt have to basically change your entire life style for that person. A few things are tolerable, but, not the whole thing. Just slip some rohypnol in her cherry soda.

AWD

[_allstar]

lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets

[S.T.F.U.]

I couldn't do it! I have so many habits that she would try to break! Plus, I would really get tired of hearing it all the time. Maybe, just friends!

[R.J.]

Nope. Been there. Its annoying as shit when, after yall kiss, she starts panicking and HAS to go to confession the next day. Why start a long term relationship with all that when it would annoy the ever living crap out of you on a daily basis? You shouldnt have to basically change your entire life style for that person. A few things are tolerable, but, not the whole thing. Just slip some rohypnol in her cherry soda.

AWD
Exactly, except for the cherry soda part. :D

[cute_pali_chick]

umm im sorry.....but you have to decide how bad you want to be this girl
if you're looking for a long-term relationship with her then you have to deal with not sleeping with her until marriage and not cussing in her presence etc.
if you're not then i say end it
thats what i would do.......but then again i would'nt like being with a very religious guy either. :)

[XAoPillz]

nope

i cuss like a sailor, drink like a fish, and love to have sex with my GF. Something like that could never work out because im not gonna change who i am to please someone else, not something so major as changing my whole lifestyle!

[ashley]

no.

[R.J.]

Would you feel one bit guilty telling this person you can't be with them because of their lifestyle?

*Luckily this has nothing to do with me.

[heyitsryan]

:roflmao: :roflmao: If she's a wealthy Jew, sure.

[merked]

if she was really religious, she would probably chose not to be with someone who was not religious

[ashley]

no. because i would simply explain that we all have different beliefs and that i respect that he's religious when im just not. lol. and if he wants we can try to work around it and ill try not to insult his pious activities :]

*im not that religious but my boyfriend is certainly more religious than i, we kinda had an arguement the other day so i sorta know how this feels lol.........but i just told him you can believe what you want and ill believe what i want and we're both happy! just because we dont believe in god the same way doesnt mean either of us are wrong in the way we believe*

[Libby]

I couldn't. I wouldn't feel guilty though because it would hurt the person more in the long run than if you told t hem from the beginning.

[cabajaba]

I could cause I am also

[ChilinazaVillin]

i dunno, i guess i could. To be honest, i am not that religious at all but it would be nice to find someone who is.

[Shortstack]

No. The relationship would surely fail.

[mtran]

im a very religious person; i would date myself, so yes :kekegay:

[blackrsx]

Jav at VIP: dude

Jav at VIP: i hope religion is evolutionarily unfavorable

to answer the question, no

[Civic4Ever]

yeah i think i can

[_relapsd.]

hell no.

[mattrox]

damn idk about you but I went out with a VERY christian girl almost like you described but I made her effin horny, took her virginity after a week.. I never even thought I would get past kissing haha oh well, its working out great now, guess I influence rebellion?

[HoHo]

hell no. i find alot of religious people are too judgemental and thats one of my pet peeves.

[Jamiroquai]

No.

[Cloud Nine]

naww i dont think so...im not THAT religious i mean i am but not THAT much....ide prolly feel like shit just being around her from all the stuff ive done and her being so good lol

[TylerDurden]

nope. Religious people are crazed out. cant seem to talk about anything other than religion. wouldn't be fun for me.

[CaDDiLaCin]

now days its hard to find a girl like that. I would marry a bitch just cause the fact im such a bad person as in all i do, how i think, i drink almost everyday. So "she" would make a positive change in my life. an thats if the opposite person wants to change in a positive way.

Now reality, no im not ready for that YET! Having to much fun being single. Maybe 5 or so yrs down the road, i would love to meet a girl like that. She would make me a better person, would be a great mother an the kids would turn out to be religious too (hopfully)...

[-asimo-]

No.

[Cloud Nine]

No.
a religious robot? ive never heard of one

[OneArmedScissor]

nope.
I don't want to date a girl who is obsessed with manga and anime for the same reasons I wouldn't date a girl who is really religious.

I'll let everyone on here do the math.

[Page]

Usually a VERY VERY religious person can't see themselves without someone close to or equally as religious as them (my sister is like this). So you being not religious, you wouldn't have to really worry about it.

[XAoPillz]

my first GF was VERY religious, church on wednesday and sundays, going to africa to help build churches, doing food drive, anything and everything she could possibly do. I slowly got her to stop going, not on purpose, she just started to want to sneak out and hang out rather then going. Then we ended up having sex and both losing our virginity to each other. Then i got her to start drinking, again not on purpose but because she wanted to join in the fun that my friends and i were having. Then it was weed, then it was X, again all by her own doing but i was there to provide it. And now she has fucked half my group of friends plus a ton more guys, she turned into a total fuckn slut, i think she was so strict before that when i showed her the light she went fuckn nuts. Im probably going to hell for corrupting one of gods good children...but o well!

[AWD]

my first GF was VERY religious, church on wednesday and sundays, going to africa to help build churches, doing food drive, anything and everything she could possibly do. I slowly got her to stop going, not on purpose, she just started to want to sneak out and hang out rather then going. Then we ended up having sex and both losing our virginity to each other. Then i got her to start drinking, again not on purpose but because she wanted to join in the fun that my friends and i were having. Then it was weed, then it was X, again all by her own doing but i was there to provide it. And now she has fucked half my group of friends plus a ton more guys, she turned into a total fuckn slut, i think she was so strict before that when i showed her the light she went fuckn nuts. Im probably going to hell for corrupting one of gods good children...but o well!

before and after pics please..

AWD

[XAoPillz]

before and after pics please..

AWD

she basically always looked the same....

She is the one on the left, i dunno how old this pic is though because i really dont talk to her all that much, i just stole the photo from her myspace, she used to have better pictures up but now all of them are fuckn lame.
http://www.hi-upload.com/uploaded1/kara.jpg

[HondaGirl23]

I am not religious at all. I have my beliefs but no more than that. Although I agree with some about having a better lifestyle, I couldn't be with someone who was very religious. *Luckily my bf nor I are religious*

I have a cousin who is always having arguments with her husband for that same reason. She tries to teach him what she knows and he is always debating otherwise. I think that even if you try to work together there will be times where you two will conflict, whether you are a little religious or a lot.

[edobear]

Hell naw, because it would drive me nuts to hear bullshit after bullshit then to get backdoored bitched at for doing things that I like to do, say, and/or watch.

[baodownbia]

my first GF was VERY religious, church on wednesday and sundays, going to africa to help build churches, doing food drive, anything and everything she could possibly do. I slowly got her to stop going, not on purpose, she just started to want to sneak out and hang out rather then going. Then we ended up having sex and both losing our virginity to each other. Then i got her to start drinking, again not on purpose but because she wanted to join in the fun that my friends and i were having. Then it was weed, then it was X, again all by her own doing but i was there to provide it. And now she has fucked half my group of friends plus a ton more guys, she turned into a total fuckn slut, i think she was so strict before that when i showed her the light she went fuckn nuts. Im probably going to hell for corrupting one of gods good children...but o well!


haha dawg u totally changed her ass for the worse..hahha:roflmao:

[PeteSi]

I used to be with a girl in a very religious family. They kept trying to convert me. LOL

[XxdsmxX]

religious chicks are awsome dude they are always there and always help you out i used to date one she waited on me hand and foot......
but then we broke up and i got a new girlfriend......HAHAHAHAHAHA

[DJ_713]

i dont mind all of that. for a wife, i dont like a girl who curses too much. shit just aint lady like ya know. i can tolerate a girl cussing, but not when its every other word bitch fuck shit damn hell ass. just aint classy.

[the days expire]

Nope.

This reminds me of that episode of Trading Spouses.

"IT'S DARK SIDED. IT'S NOT CHRIST-E-UUUUHN!!!"

[PornItos]

nope.

[Smashin']

No. I cuss too much. Shit.

[SAR05]

Like a few others said, I very religious person tries to stay away from those that are not. I know when I used to be all in the food drives and going to church every chance I got, I didn't associate myself with anything short of a good down to earth christian man.

Now, however I am trying to get back to that person I used to be because I was a lot happier then I am now. So a good christian man would be perfect....or if my husband was a little more relgious that would work too.

[OneArmedScissor]

I dunno, all girls tend to get religious after I pull down my pants.





("OH MY GOD!)




you can take that two ways :roflmao:

[nightracer]

1. I cuss to damn much
2. I like to fuck alot
3. I streetrace alot
4. I am the cap'n hook of sw piracy

lollerskates...

[ScionGuyizCool]

hell no

no jesus freaks for me....i guess im going to hell for that one

[GSR]

Yes, If she is Roman Catholic.

If she is a Jehova Witness than I doubt I can since they can celebrate any holidays.
Other religions would probably conflict with my own, so as long as if she has the same religion than I wouldn't mind.