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lspoweredteg
01-11-2006, 03:18 PM
man u know what sucks...when you get the lets just be friends talk. that shit sucks. i found myself getting that talk a 1yr or 2 ago...i really liked this girl and she said that she just came out of a relationship and that she was just looking for a friend...so i was like ok thats cool she will eventually pass that stage ...so i continued talking to her and next thing i knew i loved a girl that wasnt even mine...but the weird part was she told me that she loved me...as in more than a friend...but things havent changed and i still have a lil love for this girl...she is a great girl and everything but i want her for myself but that just aint gonna happen...
i want yalls opinions....have yall been through the same stuff...what should i do?
mtran
01-11-2006, 03:21 PM
love is a two way street dude. cant love someone if they dont love you back. move on would be the obvious thing to say, but i think she needs to know all this. infatuation is a bitch.
ScionGuyizCool
01-11-2006, 03:22 PM
been there man, girls are evil man....all they do is play head games...and when they know that you like them, they have u by the balls. So expect more torment and heartache becuause chicks get off when they see you suffer.
but if she's a nice girl maybe it isnt like that.....but remember even the sweetest
girl can be a super evil bitch with you not even realizing it until its to late.
jnguyen26
01-11-2006, 03:23 PM
love is a two way street dude. cant love someone if they dont love you back. move on would be the obvious thing to say, but i think she needs to know all this. infatuation is a bitch.
yes. dont hesitate to move on. if she wanted you than yall would have already been together. i hate when girls play games
mtran
01-11-2006, 03:24 PM
be her friend, if she's ready to come around, she'll come around. can't knock a girl if she don't feel the same way about you...
SugarDaddy
01-11-2006, 03:33 PM
been there man, girls are evil man....all they do is play head games...and when they know that you like them, they have u by the balls. So expect more torment and heartache becuause chicks get off when they see you suffer.
but if she's a nice girl maybe it isnt like that.....but remember even the sweetest
girl can be a super evil bitch with you not even realizing it until its to late.
:wrd:
rx8ah
01-11-2006, 03:36 PM
look at AWD's avatar and thinger above it. its MIIIIIIIIIIND GAMES!!!
XAoPillz
01-11-2006, 03:47 PM
you got stuck in the FRIENDS ZONE! your fucked.
cute_pali_chick
01-11-2006, 03:55 PM
ill admit ive done that before....i liked a guy and didnt tell him i wanted to be with him and just wanted to be friends when we first met..but after a few months i realized i made the right decision because he changed and started acting all weird.....and you say you've been talking to this girl for 1 or 2 years...she must not want to commit.....im sry:(
lspoweredteg
01-11-2006, 03:57 PM
lmfao...friend zone...thats a new one
lspoweredteg
01-11-2006, 03:59 PM
ill admit ive done that before....i liked a guy and didnt tell him i wanted to be with him and just wanted to be friends when we first met..but after a few months i realized i made the right decision because he changed and started acting all weird.....and you say you've been talking to this girl for 1 or 2 years...she must not want to commit.....im sry:(
thanks...but this is my the first time ive ever talked to a chic this long...i didnt know what to do...but i did learn alot...it helps to have girl for a close friend...oh well cant win them all
SugarDaddy
01-11-2006, 04:04 PM
you got stuck in the FRIENDS ZONE! your fucked.
:roflmao: :roflmao: @ FRIEND ZONE.... worse that the fucking twilight zone!
accordvtec
01-11-2006, 11:24 PM
rofl friend zone...
alreadyknow
01-12-2006, 03:17 AM
man u know what sucks...when you get the lets just be friends talk. that shit sucks. i found myself getting that talk a 1yr or 2 ago...i really liked this girl and she said that she just came out of a relationship and that she was just looking for a friend...so i was like ok thats cool she will eventually pass that stage ...so i continued talking to her and next thing i knew i loved a girl that wasnt even mine...but the weird part was she told me that she loved me...as in more than a friend...but things havent changed and i still have a lil love for this girl...she is a great girl and everything but i want her for myself but that just aint gonna happen...
i want yalls opinions....have yall been through the same stuff...what should i do?
that sucks
SloESLex
01-12-2006, 03:19 AM
thats when i tell the girl "i want pussy, not pals"
katie
01-12-2006, 09:41 AM
It's been two years since you guys have had that just friends talk. Maybe have another one to see what's going on.
eSArGhTee4
01-12-2006, 09:46 AM
i say dont rush it if things are meant to be they are.... dont forget to put effort into it though.
Dorian
01-12-2006, 10:15 AM
thats when i tell the girl "i want pussy, not pals"
:roflmao: :rock:
Bad Shark
01-12-2006, 10:18 AM
when a girl tells you she just wants to be friends, it's time to move on. never talk to her again
baodownbia
01-12-2006, 02:13 PM
talk to her ass and tell her to give it a chance..
Ms Kimmaly
01-12-2006, 02:58 PM
it happens
maybe too often.
lspoweredteg
01-12-2006, 03:14 PM
i cant just stop talking to her though...i was there during hard times and i said that i would always be there so i guess theres no turning back now...ill just have to live life in the FRIEND ZONE!!!! nooooooooooo
RaCinStylez
01-12-2006, 03:19 PM
I know wut u are goin thru man...you eventually get over it
lspoweredteg
01-12-2006, 03:31 PM
nice advice
RaCinStylez
01-12-2006, 03:35 PM
I dont know about the waiting part. Ive tried waiting and even turned down other girls because I thought this girl would come around and still want to be with me. Well, it never did happen so I was SOL.
look at AWD's avatar and thinger above it. its MIIIIIIIIIIND GAMES!!!
IN
Triple T for teh win
AWD
Oh, and when a chick tells you that, it means youre not her type and she will basically end up sleeping with everyone else 'cept you..lol
AWD
mofoD
01-12-2006, 04:46 PM
i know this situation all too well....if you think she is worth the wait then wait....but really move the fuck on. whose wearing the pants? you or her?
mofoD
01-12-2006, 04:48 PM
TRUST me. . . . The minute you start talking to another girl or get a GF. . . .she is going to come back and tell you she wants you. If you have the patience, wait around for a while, but at the same time, don't wait around forever. There could be some honey-Dip out there who would give you just the same amount of affection, maybe even more. Just know when enough time has passed and don't let her take you for too long of a ride.
:idea: correct!
OneArmedScissor
01-13-2006, 05:06 AM
"friend zone" = she doens't like you but you are so pathetic she feels bad for you and doesn't want to reject you for fear of being indicted for your suicide later that night.
give her the finger and never talk to that hoe again.
:thumb:
tuanieee
01-13-2006, 06:21 AM
that happen to me long ago maybe 6 years ago... hahaha
alreadyknow
01-13-2006, 06:24 AM
"friend zone" = she doens't like you but you are so pathetic she feels bad for you and doesn't want to reject you for fear of being indicted for your suicide later that night.
give her the finger and never talk to that hoe again.
:thumb:
kinda harsh lol
mofoD
01-13-2006, 02:17 PM
"friend zone" = she doens't like you but you are so pathetic she feels bad for you and doesn't want to reject you for fear of being indicted for your suicide later that night.
give her the finger and never talk to that hoe again.
:thumb:
hahahhahahaha thats brutal man. fuck them hoes.
_BooBoo_
01-13-2006, 03:15 PM
Oh, and when a chick tells you that, it means youre not her type and she will basically end up sleeping with everyone else 'cept you..lol
AWD
this is pretty much it.
lspoweredteg
01-13-2006, 03:56 PM
"friend zone" = she doens't like you but you are so pathetic she feels bad for you and doesn't want to reject you for fear of being indicted for your suicide later that night.
give her the finger and never talk to that hoe again.
:thumb:
lmao ...cant do that
lspoweredteg
01-13-2006, 03:57 PM
i put myself in this situation so im just going to have to suck it up like a man....hahaha
i-vtec195
01-13-2006, 04:24 PM
sucks dood, just keep your head up and protect your best interest...
HKS_ECLIPSE
01-13-2006, 05:06 PM
man u know what sucks...when you get the lets just be friends talk. that shit sucks. i found myself getting that talk a 1yr or 2 ago...i really liked this girl and she said that she just came out of a relationship and that she was just looking for a friend...so i was like ok thats cool she will eventually pass that stage ...so i continued talking to her and next thing i knew i loved a girl that wasnt even mine...but the weird part was she told me that she loved me...as in more than a friend...but things havent changed and i still have a lil love for this girl...she is a great girl and everything but i want her for myself but that just aint gonna happen...
i want yalls opinions....have yall been through the same stuff...what should i do?
im goin thru the same shit rite now, it sux... girls are just to fucking scared of something new. yea i finally told the girl i liked what my feelings were and she was like i just dont think im ready for anohter relationship even tho we havd been casually dating for a couple months. shits just gay if u ask me:stare:
lspoweredteg
01-13-2006, 05:55 PM
yep !!!! i hate it...catch 22
r1whore
01-14-2006, 09:51 AM
drop the bitch and move on.
danny
01-14-2006, 01:50 PM
In all honesty it was only 1 or 2 yrs, your lucky it didnt go on for lets say...., 10 yrs
mydangnigka
01-14-2006, 02:15 PM
dude jus show her ur dick....grab and u coulda had dis in u but u chose otherwise lol
HCCriminal
01-14-2006, 03:24 PM
been there, done that.... just let it slide for now, maybe later on, she'll realize how great of a guy you are. :thumb:
Abdul
01-14-2006, 03:40 PM
man u know what sucks...when you get the lets just be friends talk. that shit sucks. i found myself getting that talk a 1yr or 2 ago...i really liked this girl and she said that she just came out of a relationship and that she was just looking for a friend...so i was like ok thats cool she will eventually pass that stage ...so i continued talking to her and next thing i knew i loved a girl that wasnt even mine...but the weird part was she told me that she loved me...as in more than a friend...but things havent changed and i still have a lil love for this girl...she is a great girl and everything but i want her for myself but that just aint gonna happen...
i want yalls opinions....have yall been through the same stuff...what should i do?
wow thats weird, im in the same situation but for me its a bit more like friends with benefits at the same time... :thumb:
Abdul
01-14-2006, 03:47 PM
all u gotta do what worked for me so far is talk to other girls, just get numbers n start talkin to girls, make sure when she tells u how she gave her number "to the hot guy who came into her job today" be like oh yea there WAS this fine chick i talked to blah blah man that gets them, or if u go to school then get a chicks number of somebody she knows thats hot or w/e they'll be all over u the next day, girls get jealous of each other EZ.
DiscreetSpeed
01-16-2006, 08:16 AM
man u know what sucks...when you get the lets just be friends talk. that shit sucks. i found myself getting that talk a 1yr or 2 ago...i really liked this girl and she said that she just came out of a relationship and that she was just looking for a friend...so i was like ok thats cool she will eventually pass that stage ...so i continued talking to her and next thing i knew i loved a girl that wasnt even mine...but the weird part was she told me that she loved me...as in more than a friend...but things havent changed and i still have a lil love for this girl...she is a great girl and everything but i want her for myself but that just aint gonna happen...
i want yalls opinions....have yall been through the same stuff...what should i do?
:dunno: in the same situation. but we talk all the freakin time! like everyone else gets ignored cause im always with the "just maybe today it will happen". shit it sucks sometimes :ninja:
lspoweredteg
01-17-2006, 04:58 PM
:dunno: in the same situation. but we talk all the freakin time! like everyone else gets ignored cause im always with the "just maybe today it will happen". shit it sucks sometimes :ninja:
dam im in that exact shit!!!! exact....we talk alot ...how could two people have so much fun with each other but not be together ? puzzles me ...well fuck it ill take it how it comes
xCiviCxSIx
01-18-2006, 02:21 AM
dam im in that exact shit!!!! exact....we talk alot ...how could two people have so much fun with each other but not be together ? puzzles me ...well fuck it ill take it how it comes
i wanna know the same thing because i'm in the same exact situation!? :-/
DiscreetSpeed
01-18-2006, 07:15 AM
well i called it quits yesterday. no mas for me.
sorry but if someone is meant for you the feeling will be mutual and not this draggin along stuff.
Sloshy
01-18-2006, 08:11 AM
love is a two way street dude. cant love someone if they dont love you back. move on would be the obvious thing to say, but i think she needs to know all this. infatuation is a bitch.
DiscreetSpeed
01-18-2006, 10:54 AM
:wrd: :-/
98 ex
01-18-2006, 01:47 PM
watch a porno with her.... if that dont work then just tell her how you feel..
hyperenergy
01-20-2006, 01:25 PM
girls are bitches they lead you one way then ditch you by telling you i wanna stay friends i swear it happened to me 3 times in 05
PornItos
01-20-2006, 01:37 PM
girls are bitches they lead you one way then ditch you by telling you i wanna stay friends i swear it happened to me 3 times in 05
that sucks
EL Dudearino
01-20-2006, 01:46 PM
man u know what sucks...when you get the lets just be friends talk. that shit sucks. i found myself getting that talk a 1yr or 2 ago...i really liked this girl and she said that she just came out of a relationship and that she was just looking for a friend...so i was like ok thats cool she will eventually pass that stage ...so i continued talking to her and next thing i knew i loved a girl that wasnt even mine...but the weird part was she told me that she loved me...as in more than a friend...but things havent changed and i still have a lil love for this girl...she is a great girl and everything but i want her for myself but that just aint gonna happen...
i want yalls opinions....have yall been through the same stuff...what should i do?
see other chics, she will either get jealous and give it up or she never digged you man..
DiscreetSpeed
01-20-2006, 01:52 PM
wrd ^^^
lspoweredteg
01-20-2006, 10:16 PM
but what sucks is that i signed up on the dotted line and i said "its ok ...im cool with being just friends(i was fucking lying )" ...now i have a big ass soft spot for her and i can stop being her friend...i try to go days without talking to her but ...when we finally do talk i remember why i like her so much...and then its back to square one...this is a BIG PROBLEM ...im in a lose lose situation
JerseyKing
01-20-2006, 10:26 PM
man u know what sucks...when you get the lets just be friends talk. that shit sucks. i found myself getting that talk a 1yr or 2 ago...i really liked this girl and she said that she just came out of a relationship and that she was just looking for a friend...so i was like ok thats cool she will eventually pass that stage ...so i continued talking to her and next thing i knew i loved a girl that wasnt even mine...but the weird part was she told me that she loved me...as in more than a friend...but things havent changed and i still have a lil love for this girl...she is a great girl and everything but i want her for myself but that just aint gonna happen...
i want yalls opinions....have yall been through the same stuff...what should i do?
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