If you like someone...

[eSArGhTee4]

do you call that person or let them call you?

It seems like im the only one calling its been 2-3 days already.. Just getting some opinions.. :D

[Retardo]

i really dont know. i done that b4 and than stopped callin her to see what wuld happen. than she called after a day i didnt call and was like 'why didnt you cal me?' started bitchin. not really bitchin but like..iono. ahah i hate being the 1 always callin too tho. lol

[edobear]

that's a catch 22 to me

It all depends on the girl though.

[eSArGhTee4]

yeah it really does depend on the girl =x I texted her twice today and called her once and I havent got to her yet =/
and Im ditchin another girl for this girl and I dont even know whats going on, probably end up with nothing at the end.

[CBridah]

some girls dont like 2 be callin.... sum will wait for the guy 2 call instead

[PeteSi]

I don't know any girls numbers to be callin...so they'll never know if I like them :bawling: :bawling: :bawling:

[jhonda04]

do you call that person or let them call you?

It seems like im the only one calling its been 2-3 days already.. Just getting some opinions.. :D

wait im confused, you have called her, or its been 2-3 days since you MET her and haven't called her yet?

[t0t4lly5up3r]

i don't like it when it feels like i'm the only one putting in any effort, y'know?

i don't mind calling, but don't make me feel like you could care less that i put forth the effor.

[_BooBoo_]

dang aie dont call/text too much and seem desperate now.

[mtran]

my exgf use to call me all the time; its hella annoying.

[eSArGhTee4]

okay im f'd up i think i seem desperate as fuk.. should I even walk her ass to class again tomororw? I only see her once or twice a day what you guys think? What should I even say...

[mtran]

act natural. if you see her, say whats up and what not and part ways. dont walk her to class all the time. girls are like dogs, they can smell fear and will eat you alive.

[eSArGhTee4]

do you call that person or let them call you?

It seems like im the only one calling its been 2-3 days already.. Just getting some opinions.. :D

Okay look im going to put it like this to make it easy for you guys to understand my point of view..


I just met the girl and I got her number a few days ago..

1 night we were texting for a good 4-5 hours, I should of called her instead but eh the text was gettin kinda good didnt want to ruin the moment so I went on with it.

THe next day we're suppose to go out but then everything messed up cuz I woke up late she woke up late and I had work in a couple of hours..

Today at school I went up to her at lunch and she introduced me to a bunch of her friends, her sister etc...

Walked her to class then after school I call her and we just talked for a bit and she said are you driving and talking to me agian? I was like yeah.. and I was like fine Ill call you wen I get home..

I texted her then I called her she didnt pick up... -_- then I text her again later that night and no response..

Im not even sure if this girl is interested in me or not rofl.. Getting me thinkin stupid shit...


I can be fukin with this other girl instead of her but then I think its time for me to go for a "clean" girl meaning "goodie" "goodie" instead of dating a girl all boy crazy and shit.. But yeah sure you guys get my point?

[eSArGhTee4]

act natural. if you see her, say whats up and what not and part ways. dont walk her to class all the time. girls are like dogs, they can smell fear and will eat you alive.



So, I should just wave at her or say hey whats up if i do say hey or something I know its going to stop in the hallways.. :eek3dance she always spots me alone after my lunch..

[ef9]

talk to her at school but dont walk her to class,if she dont call you after a day or so give up because its obviously not important enough to her to call you

[mtran]

every girl is different; know enough girls and you'll understand what different girl wants and needs.

[eSArGhTee4]

im lost.. I dont want to give up and on the other hand I dont know what to do..

Should I just wait for her text or call?

[eSArGhTee4]

jeez headache..

[eN_2_Oh]

dont give up jus for stupid call. keep goin and see a what shes all about, some girls dont call and wait/want the guy to always call them. mayb shes this kind. jus she what shes talkin bout then make up your mind after at least 2weeks. keep walkin her to class, girls like that.

[eSArGhTee4]

dont give up jus for stupid call. keep goin and see a what shes all about, some girls dont call and wait/want the guy to always call them. mayb shes this kind. jus she what shes talkin bout then make up your mind after at least 2weeks. keep walkin her to class, girls like that.


I'll have to play a lil hard to get too :idea:

I guess I just have to figure her out first.. I dont know its probably me just overexamining all this whole idea..

[_BooBoo_]

dont be so desperate aie. keep doing what you're doing, patience is a virtue.

[eSArGhTee4]

dont be so desperate aie. keep doing what you're doing, patience is a virtue.


haha okay :bowdown:

[97blacklude]

dont seem desperate...you gotta make her think that you would be in demand with other girls..see how she reacts and then move on from there, but definitely dont call/text her constantly..especially if she doesnt pick up..dont call her again, shit will fuck you up if you barely know her..just let things work themselves out.

[eSArGhTee4]

dont seem desperate...you gotta make her think that you would be in demand with other girls..see how she reacts and then move on from there, but definitely dont call/text her constantly..especially if she doesnt pick up..dont call her again, shit will fuck you up if you barely know her..just let things work themselves out.


Good Thinking.. :thumb:

what u mean by demand with other girls.. and see how she reacts if im messin wit iother girls? :eek3:

[_BooBoo_]

Good Thinking.. :thumb:

what u mean by demand with other girls.. and see how she reacts if im messin wit iother girls? :eek3:
yeah people want what they cant have.

[Sloshy]

call the persom you liek

[Prissy]

Call every other day.

[ADott 0824]

Tell her to call you when she gets home or after work or somethin and see if she follows through.....don't chase her around though theres plenty of other girls out there and the best ones you'll find are the ones that come along when you aren't lookin

[khanhdom]

is this high school? if so most likely, yea she feels like she has you, so she doesn't have to "work" so to say. I'd say just back off, and see how she reacts. Before I'd never call the girl I was talking to, because she would call me everyday.

[eSArGhTee4]

damn yeah this is highschool looks like im pwned -_- ill back it up a little.. I havent even got to know the girl yet jeez..

[khanhdom]

errr yea seems like you're going to fast with this and she might freak out hence not texting back or replying to your phone calls. at least that is what I see from your posts, so yea just back off a little and see what happens. you don't want to fall for a girl when she has no intentions to give it back to you.

[_allstar]

if u like her punch her in the face.


i hear hitting is a sign of flirting

[_BooBoo_]

if u like her punch her in the face.


i hear hitting is a sign of flirting
lol i have a friend that still does that shit, well not punch in the face but hes very physical. make fun of him all the time.

[EG5_TVA]

yeah it really does depend on the girl =x I texted her twice today and called her once and I havent got to her yet =/
and Im ditchin another girl for this girl and I dont even know whats going on, probably end up with nothing at the end.



what don't ditch one girl for another. you always need a back up well not really a back up, but someone you can spend time when the other(main chic) isn't available!
but the more the merrier, right:thumb:

[rx8ah]

wait 8 days (you've gone 2-3)
no calls
no communication
nothing.

after that send her a text message that you're somewhere and you cant talk. but ask if she'd like to go to get coffee or something small. no dinner. no movie. no date. just coffee. when she stops calling it means she's getting bored. let her get out of her system (8 days) then let her know that you still exsist by TEXTING her and asking if she wants to do something SMALL. NO DATE. I CANT STRESS THAT ENOUGH. tell her to call you'll call her in 20 min, call in 30

more importnantyl, dont ditch girls. go out with them as friends to go get something small or go watch a movie. this isnt a very good translation but it holds true: when you sell a type of product, it is good to have more of the product because people will buy more. = when you're with more girls more frequently (hanging out, not dating), she'll feel here security is challenged and call u...blah blah blah

once you start talking to her again only call her like every 2-3 days so you dont crowd her

[eSArGhTee4]

wow guess what, today she came to me today at lunch i didnt talk to her and I guess by the end of lunch she just came to me and was like whats up etc. etc. etc. then i walk her to class etc. yup thats about it.

[R.J.]

4-5 hours of texting? Holy shitballs.

[eSArGhTee4]

wait 8 days (you've gone 2-3)
no calls
no communication
nothing.

after that send her a text message that you're somewhere and you cant talk. but ask if she'd like to go to get coffee or something small. no dinner. no movie. no date. just coffee. when she stops calling it means she's getting bored. let her get out of her system (8 days) then let her know that you still exsist by TEXTING her and asking if she wants to do something SMALL. NO DATE. I CANT STRESS THAT ENOUGH. tell her to call you'll call her in 20 min, call in 30

more importnantyl, dont ditch girls. go out with them as friends to go get something small or go watch a movie. this isnt a very good translation but it holds true: when you sell a type of product, it is good to have more of the product because people will buy more. = when you're with more girls more frequently (hanging out, not dating), she'll feel here security is challenged and call u...blah blah blah

once you start talking to her again only call her like every 2-3 days so you dont crowd her


the coffee thing sounds like a brilliant idea since we have so much to talk about that we barely have time to talk..

I work
she works
shes pretty busy

im pretty busy but not at night.. I dont feel like talking at night i have to wake up to go to school etc. :eek3:

[eSArGhTee4]

4-5 hours of texting? Holy shitballs.


yeah dude im friggin serious

right when i get off work 10-11 we started texting and we stopped around 3 or 4 im not sure because I was pretty tired...

[baodownbia]

4-5 hours of texting? Holy shitballs.

word..i wonder wat ur fuckin bill is?

[_BooBoo_]

yeah dude im friggin serious

right when i get off work 10-11 we started texting and we stopped around 3 or 4 im not sure because I was pretty tired...
god damn aie, why dont you just use your minutes?

[mtran]

god damn aie, why dont you just use your minutes?

because that would have been the smart thing to do...

[eSArGhTee4]

iono the text started getting interesting lol OHHHHH YTEAHHH i forgot she was w/ her girls and she didnt want to get on the phone... sleep over or some shiet i dont know she told me not to call i forgot lol.

[R.J.]

rofl at sleepover

[eSArGhTee4]

rofl at sleepover


its a white people thing... :p

[_allstar]

sleep over = orgy + DP

may wanna question her

[khanhdom]

wait 8 days (you've gone 2-3)
no calls
no communication
nothing.

after that send her a text message that you're somewhere and you cant talk. but ask if she'd like to go to get coffee or something small. no dinner. no movie. no date. just coffee. when she stops calling it means she's getting bored. let her get out of her system (8 days) then let her know that you still exsist by TEXTING her and asking if she wants to do something SMALL. NO DATE. I CANT STRESS THAT ENOUGH. tell her to call you'll call her in 20 min, call in 30

more importnantyl, dont ditch girls. go out with them as friends to go get something small or go watch a movie. this isnt a very good translation but it holds true: when you sell a type of product, it is good to have more of the product because people will buy more. = when you're with more girls more frequently (hanging out, not dating), she'll feel here security is challenged and call u...blah blah blah

once you start talking to her again only call her like every 2-3 days so you dont crowd her

uhh sounds like a failure in the making

[eSArGhTee4]

here it goes again.. i texted her today and called her and no response.. wtf -_-

[mtran]

here it goes again.. i texted her today and called her and no response.. wtf -_-

maybe shes out of minutes and doesnt want to text you back....

[heyitsryan]

dang aie dont call/text too much and seem desperate now.
yeah i hate that when you call her a few times maybe text but they dont respond..makes you feel like they dont like you or something

[eSArGhTee4]

im an idiot the end... I just worry too much wtf is wrong with me..


She just texted me back saying she was working and i said well call me whenever you get home and she respond with " ill think about it " wtf lol thats fuked up

[mtran]

if you have to work this hard just to conversate with her, i dont think its gonna work out...

[_BooBoo_]

if you have to work this hard just to conversate with her, i dont think its gonna work out...
wrd, aie you're just trying to damn hard with no results.

[ExOdUs]

shes messin with ya now, she isnt worth ur time....

[mtran]

you're in high school, there's other fish in the sea...

[khanhdom]

maybe you're liking this girl too much while she isn't exactly the same about you?

[tuanieee]

find another girl...

[eSArGhTee4]

yeah I think im working too hard just to conversate with her... dang its just too f'd up for me.... I will just walk her to class once a day just to conversate a little nothing big or anything because I see her everyday walk to class by herself and I dont want things to feel awkward when I see her again.. I guess I'll go find someone else... Im putting in too much work...

btw... i never had a real relationship before so yeah Im not experienced with this kind of Love stuff or w/e you call it.

[mtran]

Im not experienced with this kind of Love stuff or w/e you call it.

its called infatuation young'n...you'll learn

[DiscreetSpeed]

yeah I think im working too hard just to conversate with her... dang its just too f'd up for me.... I will just walk her to class once a day just to conversate a little nothing big or anything because I see her everyday walk to class by herself and I dont want things to feel awkward when I see her again.. I guess I'll go find someone else... Im putting in too much work...

btw... i never had a real relationship before so yeah Im not experienced with this kind of Love stuff or w/e you call it.

ehh thats just not a good start mang. :-/
What are conversations like when you do have them?
Plenty of ladies out there, dont tie yourself down on the first chance of a relationship. keep looking

[eSArGhTee4]

I asked her out on a date today... She said after work on friday... or Saturday...

I'll let you know outcomes ;)

p.s she's a goodie goodie not no hoe or etc. whatever...

[_allstar]

http://i2.cashmoneyuploads.com/img/boobies1e4.jpg

[lspoweredteg]

stop !!!!man i been through this exact thing before...this is what you do ...guaranteed sucess...wait until you start having the perfect conversation(interesting shit , get some laughs , get her having a good time) then before the conversation gets boring find a good ass reason to hang up .ex. homework , errands or something like that. she will be thinking that maybe she isnt doing the right thing when she avoids you...dont call send a text a day (dont even bring up the fact that she hasnt called u...that shit is really annoying) eventually she will call and when she does dont hold a conversation for more than like 5 mins.(but sound happy ...like you got to drive a stock da or something lol)do this like 2 times and see where this takes you...

[_BooBoo_]

I asked her out on a date today... She said after work on friday... or Saturday...

I'll let you know outcomes ;)

p.s she's a goodie goodie not no hoe or etc. whatever...
so who is this girl already aie? i didn't know there were girls worth pursuing in Westfield

[rx8ah]

the coffee thing sounds like a brilliant idea since we have so much to talk about that we barely have time to talk..

I work
she works
shes pretty busy

im pretty busy but not at night.. I dont feel like talking at night i have to wake up to go to school etc. :eek3:
you can only get out of a relationship what you put in.
i guess what i was trying to get at is that you need to be apparent but not smothering :-/

[cute_pali_chick]

stop !!!!man i been through this exact thing before...this is what you do ...guaranteed sucess...wait until you start having the perfect conversation(interesting shit , get some laughs , get her having a good time) then before the conversation gets boring find a good ass reason to hang up .ex. homework , errands or something like that. she will be thinking that maybe she isnt doing the right thing when she avoids you...dont call send a text a day (dont even bring up the fact that she hasnt called u...that shit is really annoying) eventually she will call and when she does dont hold a conversation for more than like 5 mins.(but sound happy ...like you got to drive a stock da or something lol)do this like 2 times and see where this takes you...

i think you should do that too
and stop calling bcuz if you dont even if she liked you to beggin with she'll start thinkning youre annoying..:)

[eSArGhTee4]

stop !!!!man i been through this exact thing before...this is what you do ...guaranteed sucess...wait until you start having the perfect conversation(interesting shit , get some laughs , get her having a good time) then before the conversation gets boring find a good ass reason to hang up .ex. homework , errands or something like that. she will be thinking that maybe she isnt doing the right thing when she avoids you...dont call send a text a day (dont even bring up the fact that she hasnt called u...that shit is really annoying) eventually she will call and when she does dont hold a conversation for more than like 5 mins.(but sound happy ...like you got to drive a stock da or something lol)do this like 2 times and see where this takes you...


i like how you think.. thanks for the info because i said that ONCE you havent called me.. :bawling: i guess im annoying eh..

[eSArGhTee4]

i think you should do that too
and stop calling bcuz if you dont even if she liked you to beggin with she'll start thinkning youre annoying..:)


alrite no calls but 1 text msg a day.. got it. :eekbunny:

[lspoweredteg]

keep us posted on how it goes...i want to know...did you walk her to class?

[eSArGhTee4]

yup... i asked her out too, she was like sure (happy face) and said saturday sounds great... then she laughed and went to class.. actually i said (soo.. you taking me out to dinner right? she was like uhhh no you are taking me out rofls... etc. etc. dont wanna be so detailed you get my point dont cha.

[_BooBoo_]

stop avoiding the quesiton? who is this chick?
so who is this girl already aie? i didn't know there were girls worth pursuing in Westfield

[lspoweredteg]

yeah i got ya....didnt need that much detail...i meant keep us posted on how shit is going

[eSArGhTee4]

stop avoiding the quesiton? who is this chick?


this cute lil chick at school. :thumb:

[i-vtec195]

http://i2.cashmoneyuploads.com/img/boobies1e4.jpg


lol.... done & done!

[eSArGhTee4]

i dont think she's the type of person that will let you eat out guys sorry.. haha

[i-vtec195]

i dont think she's the type of person that will let you eat out guys sorry.. haha


probably couldn't handle taking 8.5" either... :o

[eSArGhTee4]

probably couldn't handle taking 8.5" either... :o


lol she's like 5 foot i hope not

[eSArGhTee4]

i barely tlak to the girl now just 1 text a day... beginning yesterday =/

im starting to fall for the other girl now since this girl dont want to cooperate and have any convo's.. lol

[lspoweredteg]

any changes with "the chick"

[eSArGhTee4]

Let me see whats going on today... she said she would call me yesterday night but then she back down, ditched me again.

[accordvtec]

you call and call and call

[eSArGhTee4]

i call?

[lspoweredteg]

hell no!!!!!!!!1

[eSArGhTee4]

she knows i like her.. i was flipping over some pages and she found a drawing that had her name on it lol... i accidently got bored and drew it.. and she caught it.

[_BooBoo_]

she knows i like her.. i was flipping over some pages and she found a drawing that had her name on it lol... i accidently got bored and drew it.. and she caught it.
are you sure that you didn't leave it there for her to find?

[theeeno]

are you sure that you didn't leave it there for her to find?


nah i promise you dude i didnt pull that kind of stunt..


btw i dont think she's interested.. if a girl was interested she'd non stop calling, this girl I have to put in all the work effort to even hear her voice and see her..

I dont know.. so much crap going on I dont even know what to do..

I probably just should just leave her alone, if it was meant to be she'd run to me. The End.

[mofoD]

Let me see whats going on today... she said she would call me yesterday night but then she back down, ditched me again.

fuck her.

[AieSRT4Owner]

nah i promise you dude i didnt pull that kind of stunt..


btw i dont think she's interested.. if a girl was interested she'd non stop calling, this girl I have to put in all the work effort to even hear her voice and see her..

I dont know.. so much crap going on I dont even know what to do..

I probably just should just leave her alone, if it was meant to be she'd run to me. The End.


Oh wait that was me sorry.. :roflmao: :roflmao:

[AieSRT4Owner]

fuck her.


im not going to say fuck her... but im probably going to leave her alone.. :(

[eSArGhTee4]

crap that was me again all above posts sorry guys.. ^^^^

[_BooBoo_]

im not going to say fuck her... but im probably going to leave her alone.. :(
or you could just fuck her :hsugh:

[_allstar]

she knows i like her.. i was flipping over some pages and she found a drawing that had her name on it lol... i accidently got bored and drew it.. and she caught it.

sounds like youre obsessive.

i feel like ive said this a MILLION times but u guys just dont seem to comprehend.

girls like what they dont have or cant get. sure, guys like when girls throw themselves at us.. but girls like challenge. they always think "what if.."
leave something to her imagination. i always do the 60/40 approach. u walk 40% of the way and make her walk the rest, she'll appreciate it more when she gets there. when you make yourself too available it leaves nothing to the imagination. dont push things, everything eventually falls into place as it should. if you guys have a history of being friends, test the waters then proceed when its cool. calling too much is fucking annoying and a turnoff to girls. let her call u. just txt good morning and call once.

dont push too hard with girls, they usually pull back twice as hard.

[eSArGhTee4]

sounds like youre obsessive.

i feel like ive said this a MILLION times but u guys just dont seem to comprehend.

girls like what they dont have or cant get. sure, guys like when girls throw themselves at us.. but girls like challenge. they always think "what if.."
leave something to her imagination. i always do the 60/40 approach. u walk 40% of the way and make her walk the rest, she'll appreciate it more when she gets there. when you make yourself too available it leaves nothing to the imagination. dont push things, everything eventually falls into place as it should. if you guys have a history of being friends, test the waters then proceed when its cool. calling too much is fucking annoying and a turnoff to girls. let her call u. just txt good morning and call once.

dont push too hard with girls, they usually pull back twice as hard.

This sounds too good to be true.. but obviously it IS the truth.. Thanks Ryan but im just going to do that 40-60 thing sounds like a good idea.

[katie]

I usually don't have guts to call, so I text message LOL. Maybe I'll call afterwards. Why wait?

[eSArGhTee4]

I barely tlak to the girl, I barely call her, I barely text her..

How about 1 call 1 text a day? I'll put the effort into trying to talk to her since she doesnt want to talk to me.. btw she's white

[_allstar]

white = trouble

RUN!

[mtran]

white = trouble

RUN!


white girls are teh fun!!

[mtran]

dude, let it go....go study, young'n; you have your whole life ahead of you. dont plex over bitches.

[eSArGhTee4]

dude, let it go....go study, young'n; you have your whole life ahead of you. dont plex over bitches.


Good Idea :)

I just like the company man.. I havent really had a real girlfriend that gave me company, coming home everyday bored and shit. Usually when I have a girl she calls me text me or some shit.



White girls = fun :eek3:

[Eiso]

Girls always tend to be waiting for calls....therefore I call them! but it would be nice that they can stop being shy or whatever reason that stop her from calling me when she wanted to...that would be nice!

[eSArGhTee4]

im an idiot.

[snake eyes]

lol good one, here is the easy way to do it (general, not for every girl)

when you get the number, call when you have time to talk, she doesn't pick up, leave ONE message, if she dont call back, call her in a few days

if all goes well you can take it from there

if she doesnt call back or return messages ditch the bitch and lose the number

<l><l>

[eSArGhTee4]

iono im speechless

[SpaceCityGroove]

yeah it really does depend on the girl =x I texted her twice today and called her once and I havent got to her yet =/
and Im ditchin another girl for this girl and I dont even know whats going on, probably end up with nothing at the end.
dam man maybe she aint feeling u or somehting... or playing hard to get?

[eSArGhTee4]

dam man maybe she aint feeling u or somehting... or playing hard to get?


I talked to her yesterday, called her, got a little conversation going on. talked for 10 minutes and i told her i had to go and I havent heard from her yet im still at school we will see what happens.. btw.. the girl that im giving up to talk to this girl just told me she had some issues with her bf :o