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lIl CiViC lIl
12-29-2005, 05:09 PM
How important is sex in your relationship?


Obviously it should be everything but do you think it matters? Not just the quality but the quantity..... Do you have to ask? Or does it happen on its own?.... Discuss.

drmonkey
12-29-2005, 05:18 PM
For me, its something that happens, the relationship shouldn't be based on sex...

PeteSi
12-29-2005, 05:22 PM
my last releationship....it started off not as important, and turned into all we did. :(

...actually, my last two did. weird

nismogirl
12-29-2005, 05:23 PM
sex is a big part of a relationship, when you are a new couple you have sex alot and when your together for awhile it just goes away so thats what i have noticed in past relationships but now ive been married for 2 1/2 years and the sex is still the same all the time so I guess it just depends on the person or the couple....... :thumb:

lIl CiViC lIl
12-29-2005, 05:29 PM
and you shouldn't continue a realtionship if its only based on sex.. it can harm you deeply..


though sex plays a big part in a relationship..

sex shouldnt be everything..
:wrd: I agree completly with ya...


But where do you draw the line? Could you be happy in a relationship wth out it? :yeahno:

RaCinStylez
12-29-2005, 05:30 PM
shouldnt be based on it, but it should happen :thumb:

edobear
12-29-2005, 05:30 PM
i would answer but my hand would get all shy and shit of my response

drmonkey
12-29-2005, 05:57 PM
and you shouldn't continue a realtionship if its only based on sex.. it can harm you deeply..


though sex plays a big part in a relationship..

sex shouldnt be everything..

I dont think it's even a big part of a relationship...I guess it's more of something that happens and it's a chance to show each other in the relationship how much they feel on a deeper physical level...so now it does seem like a bigger part then I thought, lol

Los
12-29-2005, 06:02 PM
and you shouldn't continue a realtionship if its only based on sex.. it can harm you deeply..


though sex plays a big part in a relationship..

sex shouldnt be everything..
whoa you are freak !!!

R.J.
12-29-2005, 06:17 PM
Sex feels good.

713_Integra
12-29-2005, 06:33 PM
i would always fight wit my ex gf on purpose...
and then we make up and fuck
and then the next day argue over some shiet and kiss and fuck and make up again
=D =D
hahaha lolz
that didnt last very long though before we broke up..lolz....

katie
12-29-2005, 06:43 PM
Not in a relationship so no sex right now.

drunkenmaster
12-29-2005, 07:04 PM
relationship: VERY important, as well as feels great

casual/non-relatioship: i do not feel good afterwards, i dont know why.

:wrd: I agree completly with ya...


But where do you draw the line? Could you be happy in a relationship wth out it? :yeahno:

relationship, as in official gf/bf: you need to talk and work it out. you can always find some hapiness in between each other where sex can be overlooked SOMETIMES.

Overall SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING in a relationship and shouldnt be either!

Page
12-29-2005, 09:28 PM
Sex with us just tends to happen, there isn't really any asking.


It just tends to happen a lot :naughty:

Smashin'
12-30-2005, 07:48 AM
Sex is VERY important in a relationship unless of course you are BOTH waiting for marriage but does that really happen anymore? lol

Anyway, it keeps the passion alive. Anyone can go home and just lay next to someone with no interaction..... whats the point of even being with the person if you arent physically and emotionally attracted to them? My SO and I are very close and I couldnt imagine sleeping in the same bed and him not holding me or having any kind of contact (doesnt always have to be sex).

Chris
12-30-2005, 08:14 AM
and you shouldn't continue a realtionship if its only based on sex.. it can harm you deeply..


though sex plays a big part in a relationship..

sex shouldnt be everything..
I agree. I see it this way, If i am with a girl i love. I really don't care about sex as much. I just am very happy to be with her.

lIl CiViC lIl
12-30-2005, 08:55 AM
I agree. I see it this way, If i am with a girl i love. I really don't care about sex as much. I just am very happy to be with her.
:wrd:.... well except for the girl part lol

DC
12-30-2005, 09:11 AM
whoa you are freak !!!
:roflmao:

infamous_ikon
12-30-2005, 09:27 AM
Sometimes when you with hold sex they can get mad at you lol

XAoPillz
12-30-2005, 11:22 AM
Sex with us just tends to happen, there isn't really any asking.


It just tends to happen a lot :naughty:

:wrd: same thing in my relationship, at least once a day if not more.

kevin79925
12-30-2005, 11:25 AM
quite lying to yourselves... if the bootie is no good your gonna leave sooner or later.. or cheat sooner or later.


so yes its very important

S54_M
12-30-2005, 12:11 PM
i think it shouldnt be based on sex




but it's still a must :p

BoostedTypeS
12-30-2005, 12:29 PM
quite lying to yourselves... if the bootie is no good your gonna leave sooner or later.. or cheat sooner or later.


so yes its very important

werd

BoostedTypeS
12-30-2005, 12:30 PM
i am not dating this girl...but we fuck about 3-4 times a week...she gets mad when i dont have a condom and wont talk to me for 30 minutes....so ya sex is EVERYTHING to me...for now...because i am 17

eN_2_Oh
12-30-2005, 01:16 PM
and you shouldn't continue a realtionship if its only based on sex.. it can harm you deeply..


though sex plays a big part in a relationship..

sex shouldnt be everything..


I agree. I see it this way, If i am with a girl i love. I really don't care about sex as much. I just am very happy to be with her.

_allstar
12-30-2005, 02:58 PM
SEX ROX

Bomb0314
12-30-2005, 04:33 PM
my last releationship....it started off not as important, and turned into all we did. :(

cute_pali_chick
12-30-2005, 11:04 PM
For me, its something that happens, the relationship shouldn't be based on sex...

T3ddy
12-30-2005, 11:15 PM
not the most important, but it definetly plays a role

xxnensiexx
12-31-2005, 12:02 AM
sex is not important to me AT ALL... but it kinda is to my bf.... he's used to having very sexual gf... im not a nimpho... once a month is grrrreat!!!

beeminIS
12-31-2005, 12:07 AM
sex is less important the longer the relationship goes. i remember when me an my s.o. meet. we were doing it all the time, at least once a week. now, 1 year later, it's about once a month..

Page
12-31-2005, 10:45 AM
sex is not important to me AT ALL... but it kinda is to my bf.... he's used to having very sexual gf... im not a nimpho... once a month is grrrreat!!!
Once a month SUCKS! :gonk:

I'd be upset if I were your boyfriend.

SIDEXIT
12-31-2005, 10:56 AM
I agree. I see it this way, If i am with a girl i love. I really don't care about sex as much. I just am very happy to be with her.
wrd.. couldn't have said it any better!

r1whore
12-31-2005, 07:47 PM
first sex...then relationship.

Chris
12-31-2005, 09:14 PM
wrd.. couldn't have said it any better!
:thumb:

98 ex
01-01-2006, 04:14 AM
sex does the body good......

CarConnection
01-01-2006, 06:43 AM
the older i get, the less i seem to care...

i was a walking erection in my teens (most are anyway), now i can still put out at the drop of a hat, all she has to do is ask, but i don't find myself craving it 24/7, i can enjoy just hanging out, and letting the trouser snake take the night off...

make no mistake though, when the time to smash comes, its still just as enjoyable as the 1st time, every time.

drunkenmaster
01-01-2006, 12:15 PM
the older i get, the less i seem to care...

i was a walking erection in my teens (most are anyway), now i can still put out at the drop of a hat, all she has to do is ask, but i don't find myself craving it 24/7, i can enjoy just hanging out, and letting the trouser snake take the night off...

make no mistake though, when the time to smash comes, its still just as enjoyable as the 1st time, every time.
very nicely said

DJ®
01-01-2006, 12:18 PM
I find that when the sex is frequent and spontaneous.....it's not important.

But when it get's all technical (due to lack of proper communication)......it becomes important and a focus of the relationship.

IncrediblePIMP
01-01-2006, 08:59 PM
the older i get, the less i seem to care...

i was a walking erection in my teens (most are anyway), now i can still put out at the drop of a hat, all she has to do is ask, but i don't find myself craving it 24/7, i can enjoy just hanging out, and letting the trouser snake take the night off...

make no mistake though, when the time to smash comes, its still just as enjoyable as the 1st time, every time.

Yeah, what he said....Everyone might not agree with me, but I believe sex is very important. Its part of a continuous bonding process between you and the one you hopefully chose foster your future children with. Sex is much deeper than any one person can admit, because as well as being used as an instant gratifier, it can also bring people together on an emotional level. I also believe that during the dating game, sex is a useful tool to help gauge another’s abilities. I don't think it's the #1 thing in a relationship, but I do believe it's definitely something that should be considered when determining the strength of one.

Sweet_RSX
01-01-2006, 10:06 PM
Yeah, what he said....Everyone might not agree with me, but I believe sex is very important. Its part of a continuous bonding process between you and the one you hopefully chose foster your future children with. Sex is much deeper than any one person can admit, because as well as being used as an instant gratifier, it can also bring people together on an emotional level. I also believe that during the dating game, sex is a useful tool to help gauge another’s abilities. I don't think it's the #1 thing in a relationship, but I do believe it's definitely something that should be considered when determining the strength of one.

very well said :)

also communication is the key :) if your SO is not doing something right, it good that the 2 of you are mature enough to talk about the issue and make things better!

Sloshy
01-02-2006, 10:21 PM
i think sex is for cool ppl

red knight
01-03-2006, 10:55 AM
Sex is very very important. I believe it can make or break a relation also. People can be patience and hold it off but not forever. Everyone has needs and some have more than other. Just dont let it become a negative addiction or obsession.

Do0k1E
01-03-2006, 12:16 PM
I can't have sex, my penor is mega diminuto.

rockostedy
01-03-2006, 12:48 PM
i would do it to make my girl shut up. seriously.

slowsleeper
01-07-2006, 01:48 PM
i would do it to make my girl shut up. seriously.
:rofl: :rofl:

Yeah, sex, and good sex is important. Its a bonding experience. However, a relationship based soley on sex will never last. After youve gone through all the positions and explored each other's limits, then what? You have to have other common interests to carry on the relationship.

YesSiR
01-07-2006, 05:28 PM
it's important but not do or die important as long as it's there and mutually enjoyed between the partners in reasonable intervals, luckily my relationship didn't start off like that nor include sex for the first two years (amazing huh) but when we started it wasnt even extreme then since we couldn't see each other but maybe 3-4 times a month, and now that she's in a different city it doesn't go down for sometimes past a month and a half, so i guess it really all depends on the couple, i'm not addicted to sex, but dammit i'm open about how much i enjoy sharing the experience with her, she enjoys it as well because if done right, it's something that you partake in in order to please the OTHER person and give them that evidence of the passion that still exists for them physically and emotionally. i get fustrated at times when she's not in the mood due to how she feels about herself physically, we all can't be supermodels but i still respect her space and leave her be until the time is right.

biography aside, it's a key part if the bond was the basis of the relationship, its basically that last significant gesture you have left to offer them that you permit only them to have from then until you part ways, that right there in itself says a lot to a person, especially when it's given willingly without regret or remorse

the days expire
01-07-2006, 05:47 PM
good sex = very important


How could you continue a relationship with someone when the sex life is horrible? Nu uh, not possible.