My Jail Thread

[SpydeRick]

Ok guys i just wanna let people know what exactly went down in jail, im going to try to make this very detailed so u know exactly how i felt and went through. If u never been to jail, make sure u make the right decisions and never go.

3:15PM : Im crying because i dont want to lose Kim, im so confused and know im days away from losing her. I couldent take it so i sliced myself, nothing major just enough to scare her, next thing i know she was on the phone calling 911 "Yea my boyfriend is very sucidal at the moment" Thats my cue to take off, i threw the knife back into the apartment and went to my job because i needed someone to talk to. As soon as i got to work i saw my manager leaving and hes very understanding so i spoke to him and he took me to Taco Bell for his lunch. I just drank water because i couldent eat in my stage. I told him how the Kim called the cops and he said most likely theyre looking for me.

4:00 PM : My manager takes me to work and we see a tow truck behind Kim's car and 2 cop cars waiting for me at Best Buy. I went up to one of the officers and let him know that it was me that they were looking for. They didnt care what i had to say, they searched me for any weapons, drugs knives whatever. They took the keys from me and gave it to another officer and checked the car for anything. The cop asked me "so why are u doing this to yourself?" I replied and said i was scared "oh u were scared" and he turned me around and slapped cuffs on me. I sat in the back of the squad car for about 10 mins until he said "we're going downtown" The whole ride i didnt know what to think about myself or my future.

4:55 PM : We hit the Harris County Jail in Downtown. Im getting all the check in stuff and 5 minutes later im sitting in the cold concrete room on a waiting cell. Later its our turn to go up so they can search us, i was asked if my glasses were pescription because they were red, i said yes and that i cant see without them. I was told to take them off and listen. They were trying to talk to this non english speakin guy and i asked if i could translate for them and they said ok. I was telling the guy not to even scratch his head of face or anything with his arms. Next thing he scratches his face and they swung this guy face first into the ground. I was scared cuz i never seen a cop go crazy on someone. They now tell all of us to take off our shirts, i took it off and held it out and accidenttally dropped it, this guy got into my face and went crazy, i said i was sorry and picked it up immediately. Next they told us to take off our shoes, i did and i dropped them being scared and when i got them i stuck them out for them to check it, then our socks, then we had to turn around and to step back until we touch the red line, once we did that they told us not to take our feet off of it but to lean forward and catch outselves on the wall. Once we all did that it was the first time i felt violated by someone else. I know its their job but damn i never knew it was going to come down to that when they touched me in those areas. Later we were told to open our mouths and the asian cop went crazy, he grabbed my face and threw my head to the wall and said "wider god damn it" i had a tear running down my face and all he could say was "dont fucking cry u piece of shit, im not your fucking mother!" Right after that we were told to grab our clothes and move into the the next holding cell.

5:15PM I think: As soon as i came in this black kid was trying to fuck with me saying i stole his glasses. I was scared cuz i thought i was going to get jumped but the cop was like "hey....stfu, thats his bitch". I then just sat in the room for about 3-4 hours until i was called to be moved into another room.

8:00 PM-1:00 AM : Im in this other room to where we see how much our bond will be and what we're in for. For some reason there was only 15 people in this room. I was called around 10:45PM to know what my bond was and what im in for. I was told my Bond was $1000 and that bail should be like $100 from a Bail Bonding area. Boss Man came in and took some people, one guy left and he left his toilet paper roll. I ran for it and as soon as i got it i used it as my pillow. After like my 200th time trying to call home i finally hear my dad say "hello?" And i said "DAD!" But the lil voice that says its a collect call came into play, once i pressed one i finally spoke to my dad. He said i should of never been with that girl. He said for me to come back home as soon as this is all over with. He said to call back in an hour to talk to my mom. As soon as i called my mom at midnight i was so glad i got ahold of her. She said she couldent make it cuz of her, and i said "fuck work mom please! Please get me out of here, im very scared" She was telling me how Kim left a message on the phone saying i was in the hospital cuz thats what she thought i was in. And i told her my bail was around $100. We spoke for 30 mins then i had to let her go.

1:30 AM : We are all going to court, they decided to do some of the Misdamenors (sp) first. They put us in order on how we're going to see the judge. I was then told my Bond would be $3000. WTH?! I was just at $1000 and they raised it $2000 so that means its $300 to get out. I tried calling my mom as soon as we got out of the court but she didnt answer.


2:30AM : We were sent into this other holding cell, i had already lost count because i was tired. I got ahold of another toilet paper roll and just slept on the floor, the Boss Man came in every 2-3 hours either to pull someone or bring people in. I think i got a few good times when i was knocked out for awhile and it felt good just to sleep when i did.

7:00 AM : We then had to do some more fingerprinting, and then went to booking so that they could tell us again what we did and how much bail is and all this other useless mess. After that we went back into another cell.

9:00 AM : I knew i got a good 2 hour sleep in the cell on the floor, we were now being told that we're going to get the jump suits. We were given bags to throw our clothes in and turn it in so that we can get our jump suit. I got naked, i felt scared but i just kept my eyes on my bag. I finally got my jump suit and now i felt branded. Im wearing a criminal suit, im wearing something of a guilty man, im wearing something that either something small that didnt hurt the world, or a multi mass killer would wear. No matter what, im wearing an orange jump suit.

10:00 AM : We're in another holding cell, im just waiting because theyre going to check our chest and other mess and ask us the same question about if we're suicidal and if we're allergic to medication.

My turn comes around 10:30 AM. They check my chest for reasons unknown to me. Then im told to talk to this lady, she askes me if im Suicidal, and i said no, if im allergic, i said no, then she said to move onto the next cell. This cell has over 150 people in here. It was hot because of body heat. I had nowhere to sit so i had to stand. People were leaving and coming in because after this they get a bed upstairs to sleep for the next few nights theyre here. A boss man came in and took like 30 people away, i got ahold of a place to sit on the concrete bench. Around 1:00 PM i believe another Boss Man came and took like 40 People, i had the corner bench to myself. I took advantage of it and never moved. I think i got another good 2 hour sleep when i could.

4:00 PM : Boss Man comes in and calls about 7 of us. He brings us into an elevator and when we get to the 2nd level came out of the elevator and when i saw the sign ** <- Releasing ** ** TDC -> ** I think i finally knew i was going to be leaving soon. Our names were called once again and i got my bag with my street clothes were in. We were told to change and shit i did. I felt good being out of that guilty mans outfit.

4:30 PM : We are taken to another cell, its crowded too. We sat here for about 30 mins. Until Boss Man pulled some of us out.

5:00 PM : Boss Man pulled some of us out and we went to the final cell. I was looking for a clock but didnt see nothing.

5:30 PM : And the Boss Man again tells some of us to come out, he gets more finger printing and we are in our final stages.

5:45 PM : Last place we're at is signing paper work and getting some of our stuff back, i had my gold wedding band that Kim gave me and her Buddha necklace Kim gave me also.

6:00 PM : Everyone is gone except me and this other guy. He got a check for some reason so he gets to cash it and for who knows what. The door opens and i was told ot take a right and go down the stairs. I sprinted my ass down the stairs knowning freedom is right beyond the door. I open the door and see where i first came in with the cop. I look around scared but i run out, sunlight hits my face, i feel warm, i didnt feel any of this for a whole day since i was inside in a cell. A guy askes me if i need a cab but i knew i made bail so i didnt know where my mom was. I asked how much to Sugarland and he said around $30. I said give me a second because i dont know if my mom was here. I finally saw her waiting for me in her truck, i ran torwards the car and got in, i gave my mom a kiss and hugged her saying thank u mom, i love u mom. I cried because i was glad to get out of there, i never cried infront of my mom before since i was a lil kid. It was the greatest feeling being out of jail and back onto something soft like carpet or having the sun hit me in the face and feeling warm.

[SpydeRick]

PART 2 SINCE MY POST WAS TOO LONG

Ill never soon forget this in my life and i just want everyone from H-i to know that jail isnt a place u want to be. The food is horrible, its lonely, its cold and theres nothing soft except a toilet paper roll. So if youre ever in a jam, and u dont know what to do, please try to keep what i said in mind and do yourself a favor and never go to jail. Its an experience u will never soon forget. Thanks to everyone who actually took the time to IM me with advice or help. And thanks to everyone who cared enough to read this and my other thread. I cant thank u all enough.

[b0y_br3ak3r]

man, you're crazy. just tell ppl jail is no fun. don't give strangers your whole business :-/

but sorry to hear the shit you been going thru. you just need a couple years to pass by so you can actually think back on this stuff and see some of the things that happened was retarded and think about how you could have handle it in a different way. cause what you are doing now and going thru, isn't right.

i think if you have to go thru this much b.s. over someone, drop it. because that would only make things a bit easier on the both of ya'll. but you're young & in love and stuff, so that wouldn't be an option for you. i wish you well with this relationship, cause you need it.

[stephen]

damn man....hope everything get better soon...no girl is worth your tears....forreal...

and why did they take you to jail? since u were " sucidal"..you dident harm her or anyhting....i would think they would take you to a mental institution....

[Chrancy]

You had to go through that? :-/ I'm sorry to hear that Rick. We'll talk later on AIM, sorry I signed off on you last night, I was on the Sidekick & it kept acting up on me. Feel better guy. :hs:

[eternalsun]

Jail sucks man I have been there 2 times for unpaid speeding tickets, never stayed more than a day though. I do not know you at all but I am gonna say one thing. From what it sould like to me you need to leave this girl behind. You need to let her go. There is no girl on this earth that is worth any of what I have just read, at all. Not to be an asshole but honestly, who did you hurt more when you cut yourself? You or her? Cutting yourself or any other form of injury that is self inflicted is the dumbest thing in the world. I really think you should give the girl a really deep "second thought". If she is the reason you went to jail and she is the reason you cut yourself, it is time to get that brain working. I hope the path you choose is the right one for you. :thumb:

[specR]

Glad your ok man.

[sshaikh01]

glad your out and ok

just don't go back that place is not people regular citizens

its for people like michael jackson, kobe byran, and serial killers

[whiteintegra281]

damn man.glad u got outter there without a bruise.sorry to hear that.well i dont know u or anything but cutting your self over realationship promblems is not a good idea.i did that to my self.my arm is all fuked up from cutting my self with a razor.i have 14 scars and still having relationship promblems.so cutting doesnt slove it.just makes it more painful.best advice for u is to get out of the realationship fast as possible.cause only two things are gonna happen if u hook back up.

either back in jail or instuition for harming yourself.and by the your are out she will be fuking some other guy and you gonna wanna cutt your self deeper.just get out of the realationship and find someone else or stay single.good luck man.

[SpydeRick]

i know i was wrong for what i did by cutting myself, and as for letting everyone know about what i did, i wanted everyone to know exact details so that u can imagine it like reading a book, just how much of a scary place jail can be.

Yea i shoudlent of cut myself but i think if i dindt do that i would of done something a whole lot worse.

I mean ive gotten some good advice from some people while others like on here are just saying to "leave her" its alot easier said than done u know?

If i can forgive her for putting me in jail, dont u think theres still hope for my relationship?

[whiteintegra281]

yea could be.its a thin line but it could be.its a 50 50 shot.i know how u feel about just letting her go.its a bitch.so yea i understand.but the things that make u happy will also make u sad.and that being said the best thing to do in this situation is to let it go.

cause if she put you in jail once then she will do it again.and if she put u in jail then she must dont really care about u.knowing u good serious get hurt being in jail. You were luck u only said one day.but besides that its your call so if something goes wrong.remember.what may be the best thing for u do is the hardest thing for u to do.

yea u love and everything, but that dont make everything alright. and for that reason u have to say goodbye.

[whiteintegra281]

i really messed that post up on the words.sorry

[Chrancy]

Rick, just wait before you do anything. Eh, I need to get back on my computer to show you. Maybe you'll give it a second thought about it.

[SpydeRick]

Rick, just wait before you do anything. Eh, I need to get back on my computer to show you. Maybe you'll give it a second thought about it.

well ive been waiting.

Its hard to get anything straight. Ive been trying to call lawyers and this one guy was just being a bitch and wants $5000. Man this is so stressing me out

[Erich01GT]

how were you able to keep track of time?? I never saw any clocks around when i was there.. (different jail though)... but yes. its not fun being there, pretty much scary as hell.. I've always thought if they actually gave kids (i.e.-teenagers) actual tours of prison, that'd probably be enough to scare most from doing stupid crimes that'd land them in jail.

[Chrancy]

well ive been waiting.

Its hard to get anything straight. Ive been trying to call lawyers and this one guy was just being a bitch and wants $5000. Man this is so stressing me out

It took me three PM's to send you HALF of the chat. When I see you online, I'll send you the rest.

[Riceracer]

how old are if you don't mind me asking? just curious that's all........

[Fury]

First let me just say that this thread is off the fucking roffles.


Your first mistake was cutting yourself. But that topic has been beaten to a bloody pulp.

Your second mistake was letting yourself be a victim. People can smell fear, you are either a wolf or a lamb. People can figure out what you are very quickly, especially in confined spaces.

Don't just sit there, talk to people, make as many friends as you can as quick as you can. Even better make friends with the guards.

Now, if you are thinking that I have now idea wtf I'm talking about, step back.
I've been to jail several.....several times. And it has just become another night in the pokey.

And yes, I have even got my ass kicked in jail. But you know what? You never know what you are made of until you spend a night in jail.



What did they charge you with, anyway?

[Fury]

how old are if you don't mind me asking? just curious that's all........
ROFL, HE'S 21

[Riceracer]

First let me just say that this thread is off the fucking roffles.


Your first mistake was cutting yourself. But that topic has been beaten to a bloody pulp.

Your second mistake was letting yourself be a victim. People can smell fear, you are either a wolf or a lamb. People can figure out what you are very quickly, especially in confined spaces.

Don't just sit there, talk to people, make as many friends as you can as quick as you can. Even better make friends with the guards.

Now, if you are thinking that I have now idea wtf I'm talking about, step back.
I've been to jail several.....several times. And it has just become another night in the pokey.

And yes, I have even got my ass kicked in jail. But you know what? You never know what you are made of until you spend a night in jail.



What did they charge you with, anyway?

i totally agree with this man.....especially the Bold letter part. But some things i would like to point out....if you try to make to much conversation with everyone some might see you as being "FRIENDLY" and that's not good....well not in there anyways.

[Riceracer]

ROFL, HE'S 21


what's with all the Large Red Text and the "ROFL"? im sorry i don't know the guy...........maybe it was stated but i didn't see it.

[Fury]

what's with all the Large Red Text and the "ROFL"? im sorry i don't know the guy...........maybe it was stated but i didn't see it.
By the way he was acting I could have sworn he was 16.....

Thats whats so god damn funny.

[Riceracer]

By the way he was acting I could have sworn he was 16.....

Thats whats so god damn funny.


oh okay....i can see the humor in it....i thought he was around that age as well....with all the crying and stuff. Not Flaming on you or anything NISMO dude...it was your first time and prolly not use to seeing things like that.

[Wasuri]

Jail sucks, I had to do some more humilating things but i feel for you rick. It sucks ass.

Feel better, for some reason time will fly and you will tell yourself "wow that happend a long time ago" and you'll forget all about it.

[TurboFC3C]

At one point I had 42 open warrants in the state of Texas, and I've been to jail I think 7 or 8 times. At first I was scared shitless, but I know the system, and as of just this past Feburary, I'm a clean man. Zero Warrants. But yea, Harris County Jail is definitely the worst. Glad you got out. :thumb:

[DwN_n_DiRtY23]

dang dood u really went off huh?? im really sorry to hear all that bullshit but hey i guess u gotta do wutever works to get sumone u really love huh?? i really respect that dawg, u gotz my respect!! shiet, i was in jail too back when i was 18 and mang tell you now i aint goin back..i was in there for 25 hrs too and that was not a very good experience at all i mean.. it was hell from gettin out that car to signin all these papers to fukin doin all the finger prints and the more u talk the more they just gonna bitch at you!! i didnt have anything wit me but a list of phone numbers and i was in that cell wit no shoes and no socks on and it was really cold like a mofo and i had to u use a roll of toilet paper as my pillow wit no blankets.. at 5:30am they woke us up to eat breakfast, we had this hard as muffin and this fukin almost rotten milk and it wasnt even funny, also if u deny to eat it u just askin fo mo troubles.. jail is like an exprience u would never forget so make sure that b4 u do stupid shit and this goes for all u ppl, make sure that u think first b4 u make a move!!! :eekbunny:

[delux247]

PART 2 SINCE MY POST WAS TOO LONG

Ill never soon forget this in my life and i just want everyone from H-i to know that jail isnt a place u want to be. The food is horrible, its lonely, its cold and theres nothing soft except a toilet paper roll. So if youre ever in a jam, and u dont know what to do, please try to keep what i said in mind and do yourself a favor and never go to jail. Its an experience u will never soon forget. Thanks to everyone who actually took the time to IM me with advice or help. And thanks to everyone who cared enough to read this and my other thread. I cant thank u all enough.

I got locked up for 3 weeks and after 3 years of probation, "Never got off early" I never want to go back to that place again. That was the first time i ever picked up a bible and prayed.

[slabcity]

At one point I had 42 open warrants in the state of Texas, and I've been to jail I think 7 or 8 times. At first I was scared shitless, but I know the system, and as of just this past Feburary, I'm a clean man. Zero Warrants. But yea, Harris County Jail is definitely the worst. Glad you got out. :thumb:

I've been locked in in Fort Bend County and Harris.

Two totally different worlds..

I never want to go to Harris Again....

At FB County.. we were in tanks of 8, and all we did was pay dominoes and cards.

Only thing good i have to say about Harris is the commissary has a wide selection. haha

[st00pid]

I wish the few times I went to jail I would have been suicidal.. I got fucked with a lot while I was in there.. I would have flipped out on the dudes fuckin with me.. I hate jail.. its dirty (Im a germaphobe) it stinks and worthless mutherfuckers always fuck with you over stupid shit.

[PORN ADDICT]

cutting yourself is teh gay

[racerzchick]

Rick as much as i know and i have talked to you, u are always feeling like shit because of you gf..if u dont want to let her go..take a break and see how life goes without her..better or worse..then u will know the answer

[Fury]

WTF DID YOU GET CHARGED WITH!

I must know.

[DwN_n_DiRtY23]

WTF DID YOU GET CHARGED WITH!

I must know.
"Terroristic Threat" :eekbunny:

[eternalsun]

Rick as much as i know and i have talked to you, u are always feeling like shit because of you gf..if u dont want to let her go..take a break and see how life goes without her..better or worse..then u will know the answer
Best thing said yet!^^^^ :thumb: :nod:

[Juanito]

how old are you?? 17? u were there for a lil over a day? i was sitting in jail longer than that and it wasnt scared like you were...i slept most of the time and waited to be called on...no girl is worth jail time except maybe ur mama...sorry u went to jail tho...live and learn...live and learn

[SecretAgent]

wrd, county isn't THAT bad. it's dirty and people are fkn dumbasses, but if you just chill everyone else does too. i'll tell you something and old dude told me while i was in. don't be intimidated by anyone, they all feel like shit, i mean think about it, they all got caught.

[ormand]

NISMOGUY, I know there are some people flaming you here, but I appreciate your lengthy thread, being the post-whore that is Ormand :thumb: . I remember watching BLOOD IN BLOOD OUT. That shit was enough to scare me from ever engaging in any illegal activity - you should rent it sometime if you want a 'lighthearted' reminder (also HBO's OZ, or A&Es award winning documentary, "The Farm")

This thread is a bit depressing :Realsad: . Jail doesn't have to be a "bad, scary" place...just look at these folks...

http://www.pack330.org/Pix99_00/jail99.jpg

http://www.nwmahlerfestival.org/brucekweb/images/heidi_jail.jpg

http://www.golfsucht.com/cartoons/images/jail.jpg

http://www.whitecountyar.org/Jail-surprise.jpg

http://www.sportsfantasyleagues.com/news/racingreports/jail.jpg

http://upload.houston-imports.com/uploaded/jail_bill_gates.jpg

[shhhyoulikeit]

First off, let's see a pic of this chick you went sushi chef over and started slicing yourself.

2nd, did they actually get a full finder up your ass, or just felt around down there. If they didn't get the finger up there, you're still a virgin, so Bubba in cell block 6 will still be happy on your wedding night.

[tru_pimp]

jail ain't that bad dude(meaning the way you described it). You just gotta relax and talk with the people around you....they know more than you because they're there all the time. Weird that you said they did all that screamin' and pushing you around, never saw that when I was there...Jail does suck, but until you experience it, you'll think it's no big deal....wait till all the debts come in.. :yeahno:

[slabcity]

I wish the few times I went to jail I would have been suicidal.. I got fucked with a lot while I was in there.. I would have flipped out on the dudes fuckin with me.. I hate jail.. its dirty (Im a germaphobe) it stinks and worthless mutherfuckers always fuck with you over stupid shit.

it's all fronts man, they just want to see you first impression..

I remeber when i Went in county, some guy came up to me and said:

him: give me ur fucking kicks...
me: i aint giving you shiet
him: alright then..

and man..i remember there was this one guy who said to another dude :i'm gonna fuck you tonite, cute thang"

that guy never wiped his ass for 2-3 days b/c he didn't want to get fucked... hahah

man i met a guy who stayed in country for 1yr awaiting trial...fucked up shiet..when i left, he was still in.

[Tito Escobar]

YOU ARE FKN STUPID FOR DOING ALL THIS OVER SOME DUMB BITCH.

You really think anyone is worth you going thru that. :stfu: I have no remorse or pitty for an idiot like you. You went to jail :wompwomp: stop being a pussy. Why dont you sit back and think about WHY you went there. Over a girl??!!?!?!?? WTF!??!?!!

[K UU G]

friend of mine just went. when picked him up he had a rank smell; that smell was sooo bad it alone makes me not wanna go.

[SpydeRick]

im 21 and got charged with Terroristic Threat for u that wanted to know

and why did i do this, i dont know, but i really cant lose Kim, shes my life. I mean the whole time in jail i was telling myself to "fuck kim" but damn its not that easy. We're trying to work things out now and we are doing better. I really cant drop and move on if thats what some of u actually think thats the best thing to do. We have had our ups and downs and just like any relationship there are hardships and i know we can work through this. Its just a little rocky but i know i we can work this out. Kim is everything to me, so i cant really let her go and im glad i didnt. I know we can work through this and it will show that stuff like this can bring people closer together

[egg]

harris county jail owns, where else can u trade a balogna sandwich for a crackrock from someones teeth?

[Jimmy]

harris county jail owns, where else can u trade a balogna sandwich for a crackrock from someones teeth? :roflmao:

[Tito Escobar]

Bullshit man, you might as well end yourself if you are seriosly revolving the world over her. You need to seriously get away from your situation for a week and see how many OTHER girls there are in Houston, and what you are missing out on.

[Fury]

Bullshit man, you might as well end yourself if you are seriosly revolving the world over her. You need to seriously get away from your situation for a week and see how many OTHER girls there are in Houston, and what you are missing out on.
Preach on brotha Tito....

[Leon]

damn thats just too much going on..... :eek3:

[Ryoga]

You really should keep all that information to yourself.
If you need to talk about it, save it for a shrink and not a message board full of people dying to dispel their 'wisdom' onto you.

[CovertPolarBear]

damn rick.. Its not worth it bro.. if SHE called the police on you... that would be the ending point immediatly for me.. She would never hear from me again.. because of kim, you went to jail.. was it worth it bro?.. I hate to hear you cut yourself.. expecially over a girl.. i hate girls.. why the hell... blah, girls dont think right anyways... srry to hear bro. i had a friend who went to jail, and some big black guy sung him to sleep.. i heard all sorts of fucked up things that went down.

[DJ iNFinite]

spent one night in harris county, and 9 days in brazoria county. Both were an experiance, but i keep finding my way into bad situations. I messed up to young being 18 with a misdeaminor and a felony 2. Young girls are definatly not worth it.

[Broke95GS-T]

I bet this bitch kim is only with you because she thinks you'll hurt yourself if she breaks it off. Doesn't she have a name on here? I'm gonna find it and PM her.

[AWD]

you should have shot yourself. the message would have gotten across alot quicker and easier..:rolleyes:


AWD

[moleman]

you fucking cried in county jail :rofl:

[Broke95GS-T]

you fucking cried in county jail :rofl:
:roflmao:

[JeffTSi924]

damn rick... you need some serious counciling or to sit down and have a serious heart to heart with some people who really care. The internet (especially HI) isn't the place to let your shit out. Only thing I can tell you is that no girl (or boy for that matter) is worth hurting yourself over. If I was her I wouldn't want to be in a relationship that seems so destructive. Hopefully jail gave you come clarity. You are 21, live life.

[DwN_n_DiRtY23]

come on ppl.. give this guy a break,shit.. he doesnt really care what u guys think the only thing he wanted was advice from us and let his feelings out by posting his feelings here.he really loves his girl and there's nuttin u can do bout that.. ppl do stupid shit when ur inlove and im pretty sure that u would too if u were in his shoes.. so, pls. cut the bullshit man u wouldnt like it if u were to make a serious thread bout yo self and ppl be postin stupid shit!! thanks..

[moleman]

come on ppl.. give this guy a break,shit.. he doesnt really care what u guys think the only thing he wanted was advice from us and let his feelings out by posting his feelings here.he really loves his girl and there's nuttin u can do bout that.. ppl do stupid shit when ur inlove and im pretty sure that u would too if u were in his shoes.. so, pls. cut the bullshit man u wouldnt like it if u were to make a serious thread bout yo self and ppl be postin stupid shit!! thanks..
im sorry i wouldnt cut my wrist to get the attention of a girl........ i would use a gun

[K UU G]

im sorry i wouldnt cut my wrist to get the attention of a girl........ i would use a gun
:eek3:

[CovertPenguin]

im sorry i wouldnt cut my wrist to get the attention of a girl........ i would use a gun

wow your cool...





on another note... sorry to hear all of this man, things will sort themselves out...

[mofoD]

if you wanted your girls attention, then punch her in the ass...twice.

dude, if your girl was 100% hottie then there would be a slight understanding why you would do a bitch move like that and cut your wrists.

but i hear things and your dating no supermodel, dude. sorry she isnt worth killing yourself or causing a ruckus at that.

[st3ph3n]

Worst thread ever.

[AWD]

come on ppl.. give this guy a break,shit.. he doesnt really care what u guys think the only thing he wanted was advice from us and let his feelings out by posting his feelings here.he really loves his girl and there's nuttin u can do bout that.. ppl do stupid shit when ur inlove and im pretty sure that u would too if u were in his shoes.. so, pls. cut the bullshit man u wouldnt like it if u were to make a serious thread bout yo self and ppl be postin stupid shit!! thanks..


I really dont care if he gets mad at me or other people for expressing my views. "Cutting" youreself just to get someones attention, especially youre gf, is the lamest and lowest form of achieving it. It really shows the low selfesteem that this guy has. Cutting yourself because bacuase youre afraid of losing a chick? I dont care how in love you are...if you have to resort to that, then that should tell you something. Nismo rick, youre wack, go see a therapist. If youre going to attempt it again, go down the road, not across the street...or use some other means of accomplishing the job.

:rolleyes:

AWD

[YAMADUDE]

i really cant lose Kim, shes my life.


She made you go through all this BS. Thats what makes me laugh.

Did you not have a life before her? I bet she could fuck your best friend in front of your face and you would still lick her feet if she wanted you to. I personally dont have any respect for guys like that. But I think what you posted about jail, everyone should read that.

[DwN_n_DiRtY23]

cmon now ppl, keep in mind this fool is inlove.. i mean, yeah it sounds desperate for him to do all that over a girl, but still.. when u inlove u wouldnt even care what ppl think and what goes in yo head (cuttin his wrist)
it just happens.. i mean, it sucks and it's really stupid that he did that all that bullshit but that's just him.. ppl got diff. ways to express they feelings and tha's just his way..

[ormand]

but i hear things and your dating no supermodel, dude.

Damn that's cold! :roflmao:

[the Asshats]

[maybe ya'll could try a little positive reinforcement....he wanted to post this thread to see what ya'll think....and he obviously wants us to know how he is doing. he really loves this girl, and i respect him very much...he'd do anything for her. ya, he made some mistakes, but mistakes is what makes us who we are today. everyone gets down...he just stepped over the edge. ya'll should be tryin to help him and be glad he is still w/us today.[/SIZE]

[the Asshats]

but i hear things and your dating no supermodel, dude. sorry she isnt worth killing yourself or causing a ruckus at that.[/QUOTE]

wow....that is the lowest, most ignorant comment i have ever seen on these boards. how dare u insult someone like that....when u love someone, u don't love them just for their looks asshole, there's obviously somethin great about her that maybe just he sees.... you ignorant bastard...you are prolly one of those guys who has never had a girl cuz u're too busy drooling over supermodels that ain't real. get a clue jackass....

[syntheticGT]

[maybe ya'll could try a little positive reinforcement....he wanted to post this thread to see what ya'll think....and he obviously wants us to know how he is doing. he really loves this girl, and i respect him very much...he'd do anything for her. ya, he made some mistakes, but mistakes is what makes us who we are today. everyone gets down...he just stepped over the edge. ya'll should be tryin to help him and be glad he is still w/us today.[/SIZE]

There is a thin line between doing anything for her and doing ANYTHING for her.

Cutting yourself is the gayest way to get attention. Of all the things he could have done too. IMHO...this boy needs help. Psychiatric help.

When it boils down to it...I think its self esteem. You have to believe in yourself to do what is right.

[syntheticGT]

but i hear things and your dating no supermodel, dude. sorry she isnt worth killing yourself or causing a ruckus at that.

wow....that is the lowest, most ignorant comment i have ever seen on these boards. how dare u insult someone like that....when u love someone, u don't love them just for their looks asshole, there's obviously somethin great about her that maybe just he sees.... you ignorant bastard...you are prolly one of those guys who has never had a girl cuz u're too busy drooling over supermodels that ain't real. get a clue jackass....[/QUOTE]


you need to calm down jessnjohn.

He came on here and aired some fucked up problems. His fault...let him deal with the bullshit.

[the Asshats]

i agree that nothing is worth hurting yourself over, but damn...he's obviously hurting, why make it worse for him? and to insult her looks? that was just not right....

[FbodTrek]

Holy crap! They arrested you and took you to County for THAT?! HAHAAHAAHAHAA :roflmao: This chick you're "In love" with musta told those cops sumthin crazy to get them to arrest you. I'd rather cut someone else than me... but i suppose that's personal preference. Drop the chick and go smoke a blunt and calm down, maybe play some video games or some shit. When/if you go to court, it will get dismissed so don't bother getting a lawyer. Relationships that "go up and down" aren't healthy. If you're in such a relationship you're not really in love...only infatuated. I had a chick make me crazy once...she aint around no more...Now Im a happy kinda guy :thumb: . But yeah, like what a few otheres said, don't cry in jail or act like a pussy, you'll get punked by everyone. Just go in there, standd tall, and dont give anybody a dirty look. The brainwashed stare is most effective (unless some little crying bitch is in there, punk him and take his juice). Jail can be a good place to make connections too....depending on what sorta work you do. Anyhow im done...thank gawd. :-/

[SpydeRick]

ok yea my gf may not be a supermodel but i dont care, she was always there for me and i still love her so STFU because u know nothing.

Look ive said plenty of times that yea i was dumb for even slicing myself and well if going to jail was worth it? Well it saved my relationship, so yes it was worth it, if she never picked up that phone and called the cops, either something even more crazy would of happened or something i rather not think about. Why cant u guys see that i just wanted to show u guys how scary jail was, i just wanted to advocate u people on that but yet i get people who think talking shit over the internet is so cool or something i dont know. I love Kim, i really do, theres nothing anyone can say to make me leave her. If she was with another guy behind my back i know i would leave her but shes a very loyal girl, shes very faithful, shes so sweet but everyone thinks shes the cruelest bitch in the world. Its nothing like that. Just because she likes to take pictures of her boobs is nothing either, thats just her.

I mean this love thing is alot to me, ive got a big heart for Kim, and if i can forgive her for sending me to jail when she thought i was going to the hospital, then i know this relationship can work. What is it that some of u guys cant get? I mean damn its like just because she sent me to jail is like i HAVE TO leave her. Ive gotten alot of IMs and theyre all different. But some do have a heart to help me out in my time in need. Im not asking for sympathy but damn, do any of u got anything better to do than to try to flame someone over the net? Get a life.

[mofoD]

wow....that is the lowest, most ignorant comment i have ever seen on these boards. how dare u insult someone like that....when u love someone, u don't love them just for their looks asshole, there's obviously somethin great about her that maybe just he sees.... you ignorant bastard...you are prolly one of those guys who has never had a girl cuz u're too busy drooling over supermodels that ain't real. get a clue jackass....


actually, you dont know NOTHING of me, and since i KNOW John and happen to think of him as a nicely hearted friend, i will out of HIS respect NOT in any way talk shit to you.

i have gf`s, i had gf`s, and im no Fabio myself, im no zoolander or shit but im not gonna go nuts over a girl who wont give me the time of the day.......if the relationship is failing, theres a reason for that...and the normal thing to do is get out and live your life because i do believe there is one girl for one guy out there and its apparent that this kim isnt fullfilling her duty to Rick.

man, LIFE IS TOO DAMN SHORT for him to be ending his life over a woman.

why dont you people fucking realize that........and next time you think i cant get a girl, umm i got laid couple days ago. mmmm thanks.

[Fury]

actually, you dont know NOTHING of me, and since i KNOW John and happen to think of him as a nicely hearted friend, i will out of HIS respect NOT in any way talk shit to you.

i have gf`s, i had gf`s, and im no Fabio myself, im no zoolander or shit but im not gonna go nuts over a girl who wont give me the time of the day.......if the relationship is failing, theres a reason for that...and the normal thing to do is get out and live your life because i do believe there is one girl for one guy out there and its apparent that this kim isnt fullfilling her duty to Rick.

man, LIFE IS TOO DAMN SHORT for him to be ending his life over a woman.

why dont you people fucking realize that........and next time you think i cant get a girl, umm i got laid couple days ago. mmmm thanks.
:wrd:

[iinastynateii]

they can arrest you for cutting yourself?

cops suck IMO. 50% crooked, 50% assholes

-Nate

[the Asshats]

actually, you dont know NOTHING of me, and since i KNOW John and happen to think of him as a nicely hearted friend, i will out of HIS respect NOT in any way talk shit to you.

i have gf`s, i had gf`s, and im no Fabio myself, im no zoolander or shit but im not gonna go nuts over a girl who wont give me the time of the day.......if the relationship is failing, theres a reason for that...and the normal thing to do is get out and live your life because i do believe there is one girl for one guy out there and its apparent that this kim isnt fullfilling her duty to Rick.

man, LIFE IS TOO DAMN SHORT for him to be ending his life over a woman.

why dont you people fucking realize that........and next time you think i cant get a girl, umm i got laid couple days ago. mmmm thanks.

allright...sorry i overreacted, but dang, i just hate it when people critisize others based on their looks. i've been talking to rick online and he seems like a nice guy, i feel bad that he's getting flamed for sharing his problems with ya'll. he needs help, and i guess i'm just really kindhearted and i try to be supernice when people are havin problems....that's just me...but ya mofo i'm sorry for what i said. it just upsets me when people are way too harsh, ya know?!?

[shhhyoulikeit]

ok yea my gf may not be a supermodel

No comment on this, because all I've seen of here is the back of her head...

but i dont care, she was always there for me and i still love her so STFU because u know nothing.

Wasn't there for you when you were in jail. See my above comment for her location.

Look ive said plenty of times that yea i was dumb for even slicing myself and well if going to jail was worth it? Well it saved my relationship, so yes it was worth it

Are you fucking kidding me. If JAIL SAVED your relationship than you're ultimately fucked. What are you going to do the next time she dumps you? Because, trust me on this one, every level headed adult in her life that you won't be able to keep her from is going to tell her to RUN THE FUCK AWAY FROM YOU'RE CRAZY ASS. No one is going to want her anywhere near you the day you go OJ Simpson on her out of jealously when some other dude is laying pipe into her better than you.

if she never picked up that phone and called the cops, either something even more crazy would of happened or something i rather not think about.

Exactafuckingmundo

Why cant u guys see that i just wanted to show u guys how scary jail was

Only scary to you because you cried like a bitch in front of convicts. Read G.Gordon Liddy's book WILL for a few tips on how to survive in jail. I predict they'll come in handy for you.

i just wanted to advocate u people on that but yet i get people who think talking shit over the internet is so cool or something i dont know.

Again, trust me on this one, you are the last person and quite possibly even non-human that should be giving anyone any advice on anything.

I love Kim, i really do, theres nothing anyone can say to make me leave her.

Obviously, her saying get out of my life didn't work. So, yes, I fully believe you there.


If she was with another guy behind my back i know i would leave her but shes a very loyal girl, shes very faithful, shes so sweet but everyone thinks shes the cruelest bitch in the world.

My money is on everyone. The only reason she's not getting tapped behind you're back is because she's busted in the face and she's a bitch. Even so, she may be getting tapped, you never know, again, see my original comment.

Its nothing like that. Just because she likes to take pictures of her boobs is nothing either, thats just her.

Lots of real, quality, successful, take home to meet your parents, good mothers to raise you're children kinda women do this sorta thing...

I mean this love thing is alot to me, ive got a big heart for Kim, and if i can forgive her for sending me to jail when she thought i was going to the hospital, then i know this relationship can work.

You, forgive her? WTF. You deserve to be in jail, you're fucked up in the head, dude. You're 1 Ron Goldman returning her glasses away from a double homicide.

What is it that some of u guys cant get? I mean damn its like just because she sent me to jail is like i HAVE TO leave her.

Priceless.

[JeLLyBeAnZ]

Dude, I'm sorry to hear that you went to jail....I'm also sorry to hear that you tried to kill yourself. Listen, there's a difference between love and obsession...and it sounds like to me that this is more of an obsession. Why would you forgive someone who called the cops on you and put you in jail? You said they put you in for making a "terroristic threat"? How is cutting yourself a terroristic threat? She must have told them something else. It looks like she was trying to get rid of you sweety...People don't get sent to jail for trying to commit suicide. They would take you to a hospital immediately....why would they take you to jail where you can hurt yourself even more?....I know it's not what you want to hear, but this girl doesn't sound like she's worth all this mess you're putting yourself through. I'm more than positive that there are other girls out there who will treat you right and you won't have to put yourself through this stuff for them...Just think about it...dont rush back into something that may f*** you up again.

[mofoD]

allright...sorry i overreacted, but dang, i just hate it when people critisize others based on their looks. i've been talking to rick online and he seems like a nice guy, i feel bad that he's getting flamed for sharing his problems with ya'll. he needs help, and i guess i'm just really kindhearted and i try to be supernice when people are havin problems....that's just me...but ya mofo i'm sorry for what i said. it just upsets me when people are way too harsh, ya know?!?


I have to be harsh, only way people will listen, you know???

Im sure Rick is an awesome guy all the way around but dude what he did is very very low and people lose respect for him when a man loses respect for himself.

he needs help for sure, but not from us. he needs professional help.

i can help him but it requires alot of slapping...tough love.


keep on being nice hearted, i can see why you and john are together, both nicely hearted people. good game, tell him mofoD loves him.

[the Asshats]

I have to be harsh, only way people will listen, you know???

Im sure Rick is an awesome guy all the way around but dude what he did is very very low and people lose respect for him when a man loses respect for himself.

he needs help for sure, but not from us. he needs professional help.

i can help him but it requires alot of slapping...tough love.


keep on being nice hearted, i can see why you and john are together, both nicely hearted people. good game, tell him mofoD loves him.


ya we definitly belong together...lol...we're both a little too nice sometimes i think! :D
and ya i agree on th professional help thing...i don't want him to hurt himself again, cuz next time it could be worse...

[mofoD]

ya we definitly belong together...lol...we're both a little too nice sometimes i think! :D
and ya i agree on th professional help thing...i don't want him to hurt himself again, cuz next time it could be worse...


word.

[syntheticGT]

Wow.

<walks towards the "cutter" with straight jacket>

Love is blind...but not when you cut her fucking eyeballs out.

[5plusjuan]

jail is fun, i want to go back!!! :thumb:

[stephenlc]

im 21 and got charged with Terroristic Threat for u that wanted to know

and why did i do this, i dont know, but i really cant lose Kim, shes my life. I mean the whole time in jail i was telling myself to "fuck kim" but damn its not that easy. We're trying to work things out now and we are doing better. I really cant drop and move on if thats what some of u actually think thats the best thing to do. We have had our ups and downs and just like any relationship there are hardships and i know we can work through this. Its just a little rocky but i know i we can work this out. Kim is everything to me, so i cant really let her go and im glad i didnt. I know we can work through this and it will show that stuff like this can bring people closer together

You had to spend a day in jail plus you have to pay $3000 = court fees. Fuck that. There are a million girls out there, keep away from kim. No contact get your friends to take you out and start talking to other girls, and do not mention kim. Come on man, if you don't feel better after a couple nights dout, seriously go get some help with your problem.

[DJLATIN]

Ok guys i just wanna let people know what exactly went down in jail, im going to try to make this very detailed so u know exactly how i felt and went through. If u never been to jail, make sure u make the right decisions and never go.

3:15PM : Im crying because i dont want to lose Kim, im so confused and know im days away from losing her. I couldent take it so i sliced myself, nothing major just enough to scare her, next thing i know she was on the phone calling 911 "Yea my boyfriend is very sucidal at the moment" Thats my cue to take off, i threw the knife back into the apartment and went to my job because i needed someone to talk to. As soon as i got to work i saw my manager leaving and hes very understanding so i spoke to him and he took me to Taco Bell for his lunch. I just drank water because i couldent eat in my stage. I told him how the Kim called the cops and he said most likely theyre looking for me.

4:00 PM : My manager takes me to work and we see a tow truck behind Kim's car and 2 cop cars waiting for me at Best Buy. I went up to one of the officers and let him know that it was me that they were looking for. They didnt care what i had to say, they searched me for any weapons, drugs knives whatever. They took the keys from me and gave it to another officer and checked the car for anything. The cop asked me "so why are u doing this to yourself?" I replied and said i was scared "oh u were scared" and he turned me around and slapped cuffs on me. I sat in the back of the squad car for about 10 mins until he said "we're going downtown" The whole ride i didnt know what to think about myself or my future.

4:55 PM : We hit the Harris County Jail in Downtown. Im getting all the check in stuff and 5 minutes later im sitting in the cold concrete room on a waiting cell. Later its our turn to go up so they can search us, i was asked if my glasses were pescription because they were red, i said yes and that i cant see without them. I was told to take them off and listen. They were trying to talk to this non english speakin guy and i asked if i could translate for them and they said ok. I was telling the guy not to even scratch his head of face or anything with his arms. Next thing he scratches his face and they swung this guy face first into the ground. I was scared cuz i never seen a cop go crazy on someone. They now tell all of us to take off our shirts, i took it off and held it out and accidenttally dropped it, this guy got into my face and went crazy, i said i was sorry and picked it up immediately. Next they told us to take off our shoes, i did and i dropped them being scared and when i got them i stuck them out for them to check it, then our socks, then we had to turn around and to step back until we touch the red line, once we did that they told us not to take our feet off of it but to lean forward and catch outselves on the wall. Once we all did that it was the first time i felt violated by someone else. I know its their job but damn i never knew it was going to come down to that when they touched me in those areas. Later we were told to open our mouths and the asian cop went crazy, he grabbed my face and threw my head to the wall and said "wider god damn it" i had a tear running down my face and all he could say was "dont fucking cry u piece of shit, im not your fucking mother!" Right after that we were told to grab our clothes and move into the the next holding cell.

5:15PM I think: As soon as i came in this black kid was trying to fuck with me saying i stole his glasses. I was scared cuz i thought i was going to get jumped but the cop was like "hey....stfu, thats his bitch". I then just sat in the room for about 3-4 hours until i was called to be moved into another room.

8:00 PM-1:00 AM : Im in this other room to where we see how much our bond will be and what we're in for. For some reason there was only 15 people in this room. I was called around 10:45PM to know what my bond was and what im in for. I was told my Bond was $1000 and that bail should be like $100 from a Bail Bonding area. Boss Man came in and took some people, one guy left and he left his toilet paper roll. I ran for it and as soon as i got it i used it as my pillow. After like my 200th time trying to call home i finally hear my dad say "hello?" And i said "DAD!" But the lil voice that says its a collect call came into play, once i pressed one i finally spoke to my dad. He said i should of never been with that girl. He said for me to come back home as soon as this is all over with. He said to call back in an hour to talk to my mom. As soon as i called my mom at midnight i was so glad i got ahold of her. She said she couldent make it cuz of her, and i said "fuck work mom please! Please get me out of here, im very scared" She was telling me how Kim left a message on the phone saying i was in the hospital cuz thats what she thought i was in. And i told her my bail was around $100. We spoke for 30 mins then i had to let her go.

1:30 AM : We are all going to court, they decided to do some of the Misdamenors (sp) first. They put us in order on how we're going to see the judge. I was then told my Bond would be $3000. WTH?! I was just at $1000 and they raised it $2000 so that means its $300 to get out. I tried calling my mom as soon as we got out of the court but she didnt answer.


2:30AM : We were sent into this other holding cell, i had already lost count because i was tired. I got ahold of another toilet paper roll and just slept on the floor, the Boss Man came in every 2-3 hours either to pull someone or bring people in. I think i got a few good times when i was knocked out for awhile and it felt good just to sleep when i did.

7:00 AM : We then had to do some more fingerprinting, and then went to booking so that they could tell us again what we did and how much bail is and all this other useless mess. After that we went back into another cell.

9:00 AM : I knew i got a good 2 hour sleep in the cell on the floor, we were now being told that we're going to get the jump suits. We were given bags to throw our clothes in and turn it in so that we can get our jump suit. I got naked, i felt scared but i just kept my eyes on my bag. I finally got my jump suit and now i felt branded. Im wearing a criminal suit, im wearing something of a guilty man, im wearing something that either something small that didnt hurt the world, or a multi mass killer would wear. No matter what, im wearing an orange jump suit.

10:00 AM : We're in another holding cell, im just waiting because theyre going to check our chest and other mess and ask us the same question about if we're suicidal and if we're allergic to medication.

My turn comes around 10:30 AM. They check my chest for reasons unknown to me. Then im told to talk to this lady, she askes me if im Suicidal, and i said no, if im allergic, i said no, then she said to move onto the next cell. This cell has over 150 people in here. It was hot because of body heat. I had nowhere to sit so i had to stand. People were leaving and coming in because after this they get a bed upstairs to sleep for the next few nights theyre here. A boss man came in and took like 30 people away, i got ahold of a place to sit on the concrete bench. Around 1:00 PM i believe another Boss Man came and took like 40 People, i had the corner bench to myself. I took advantage of it and never moved. I think i got another good 2 hour sleep when i could.

4:00 PM : Boss Man comes in and calls about 7 of us. He brings us into an elevator and when we get to the 2nd level came out of the elevator and when i saw the sign ** <- Releasing ** ** TDC -> ** I think i finally knew i was going to be leaving soon. Our names were called once again and i got my bag with my street clothes were in. We were told to change and shit i did. I felt good being out of that guilty mans outfit.

4:30 PM : We are taken to another cell, its crowded too. We sat here for about 30 mins. Until Boss Man pulled some of us out.

5:00 PM : Boss Man pulled some of us out and we went to the final cell. I was looking for a clock but didnt see nothing.

5:30 PM : And the Boss Man again tells some of us to come out, he gets more finger printing and we are in our final stages.

5:45 PM : Last place we're at is signing paper work and getting some of our stuff back, i had my gold wedding band that Kim gave me and her Buddha necklace Kim gave me also.

6:00 PM : Everyone is gone except me and this other guy. He got a check for some reason so he gets to cash it and for who knows what. The door opens and i was told ot take a right and go down the stairs. I sprinted my ass down the stairs knowning freedom is right beyond the door. I open the door and see where i first came in with the cop. I look around scared but i run out, sunlight hits my face, i feel warm, i didnt feel any of this for a whole day since i was inside in a cell. A guy askes me if i need a cab but i knew i made bail so i didnt know where my mom was. I asked how much to Sugarland and he said around $30. I said give me a second because i dont know if my mom was here. I finally saw her waiting for me in her truck, i ran torwards the car and got in, i gave my mom a kiss and hugged her saying thank u mom, i love u mom. I cried because i was glad to get out of there, i never cried infront of my mom before since i was a lil kid. It was the greatest feeling being out of jail and back onto something soft like carpet or having the sun hit me in the face and feeling warm.
memories of harris county jail :ugh2:

[AWD]

If she was with another guy behind my back i know i would leave her



No you wouldnt, you would probably finish where you left off.

Im not asking for sympathy but damn, do any of u got anything better to do than to try to flame someone over the net? Get a life.

So, to qualify as "having a life", does that mean we NEED to be sympathetic towards you? Seriously, wtf did you honestly think would happen when you posted up that psychotic shit? Youve been on this message board long enough to know what will get you flamed and why people will flame and criticize you for the stupid childish crap that you did. You could have left the whole deal about you, youre woman, and youre arms out of this thread and things would probably have gone alot smoother. Dont come back replying to this thread with sand in youre vagina because some of us arent being sympathetic. You say youre not asking for sympathy, please Ive heard better lies from 3 year olds:rolleyes:

AWD

[shhhyoulikeit]

I can't pin down whether your life is more like a bad episode of Cop's or Jerry Springer. It's definitely somewhere in that spectrum. So, of course we're going to tee off on you.

That being said, the only reason you want her back is because you view her as an object that you don't want to lose. It doesn't have to be a girl, it could be any object or situation that you just want to no be perceived as the loser of. Sprinkle in some jealous thoughts of the next cock that's going to be plowing into her and BAM, you're going Orenthal on your arm, and maybe one day her + the waiter returning glasses.

Use the unique opportunity that JAIL has created to bow out gracefully. Ride that whole, I'm crazy in the head and need to sort things out by myself out that you have in front of you to be able to break up and not have it seem like a loss. In fact, don't even call it a break-up. Bullshit yourself and say you're "taking time apart while you get better" to help you save face with your own ego. In return, she'll lie to you and say that she'll be there for you when the "time is right". All the while, other dudes will be all up in there. It's just reality, but denial should help you get through it.

[YAMADUDE]

when u inlove u wouldnt even care what ppl think and what goes in yo head (cuttin his wrist)
it just happens.. i mean, it sucks and it's really stupid that he did that all that bullshit but that's just him.. ppl got diff. ways to express they feelings and tha's just his way..



I understand what your saying. You can be in love and would do anything for the girl. No matter how shitty she makes you feel or what horrible shit she does, you would still love her. Loving someone can literally bring you down to your knees.

BUT:

Now dude has to check "Yes" when asked if he was ever arrested on applications for apts / jobs etc...........THAT SHIT IS / WAS NOT WORTH IT. Instead of dealing with the pain of a relationship gone bad, he is ruining his life to hold on to what he doesnt have anymore. He doesnt see it cause hes in love. (See above) I would get away from that girl. As hard as it would be. Cause its over anyways IMO. Or it will happen again.

Either way, that girl is destined to destroy his life it sounds like and he is going to let her. Dont chicks like dudes with self respect? Doesnt sound like he has any. Pitty.

[YAMADUDE]

jail is fun, i want to go back!!! :thumb:



:roflmao: You can learn more criminal shit plus meet new drug connections :roflmao:


In there with a broken heart gotta suck though.....

[BacktomyRoots]

Dude i don't mean to sound like an ass or anything. But you just gotta suck shit up and be a man. When you get locked up if you act like a bitch your damn shure going to get treated like a bitch. Im not saying be a hardass, im just saying deal with the situation without coming off as a punk. Im not proud of it, but i've been there a few times. And it was a little more than just 1 day. Hell in my tank i was bunking with dudes who were looking at like 1 year county, and then around 2-3 years state afterwards. You should have known that there not going to hold you for cutting yourself for more than 2-3 days. Personally i'd probably just sit the shit out rather than having to deal with a crooked ass bondsman. Just suck it up, deal with your problems like a man, and get over it. Whenever a shitty situation comes around complaining and crying accomplishes nothing.

[BacktomyRoots]

you fucking cried in county jail :rofl::roflmao:

[DJLATIN]

:roflmao: You can learn more criminal shit plus meet new drug connections :roflmao:


In there with a broken heart gotta suck though.....
all the people in jail are either one of the following:
a legend in his own mind
hold a degree in criminology or the court system
arrested wrongfully
really innocent
not drunk, just tipsy.

:rock:

[SpydeRick]

look i never said i cried in jail. I dont know who the fuck said that. I didnt stay quiet, i shared my shit with the other people there too. They all told me the same thing except for one guy. Theres hope for any little thing possible. And i believe there is hope for my relationship even as i was told in jail.

[BacktomyRoots]

look i never said i cried in jail. :roflmao: :roflmao:

[JigGA Lo]

Dude i don't mean to sound like an ass or anything. But you just gotta suck shit up and be a man. When you get locked up if you act like a bitch your damn shure going to get treated like a bitch.
Yeah Nismo
Or your next visit will go like this:
DAY 1 > crying like a bitch
DAY 2 > fucked in the ass like a bitch
DAY 3 > same as DAY 2, but also doing another man's laundry like a bitch.

Seriously though, seek professional help because you are obsessed with this girl.
OR, fucking listen to your parents for a change. Try to do some of that shit they been telling you over the years, for once.. No sympathy here. MAN be a MAN yo. Also know that any MAN who sympathizes with you only adds fuel to your condition. As far as jail goes, we already know it's fucked up... you just wanted some sympathy, huh?? :yeahno:
Don't get it twisted, I'm not flaming you my H-I brother just giving you tough love. YOU need it, 'cause you've lost your mind.

[MuddyJEEP.com]

didnt read the novel.................stopped at the slicing and dicing of yourself...............all I gotta say is get a grip....do you think thats gonna make her stay with you?.........
and to do something like that to yourself....especially for a girl.....I dunno what else to say except that you need prayer and you better get you silly butt to a church and talk with your maker.....get some fellowship and understand there is more to live for....I know you were just doing it to get her attention......seriously think she is gonna be like..."i really want you now...that really made me understand better?"..jeez....sorry, I may not be the best person to get sympathy from......thats just dumb stuff indeed.
get a life of different sorts.....get some friends.....go visit a local church and get some friends from there....christian fellowship will give you the strength to deal with lifes trials and tribulations .....nobody said it was going to be easy....but thats surely not making it any easier on ya........

oh, and next time post cliff notes.

[AWD]

didnt read the novel.................stopped at the slicing and dicing of yourself...............all I gotta say is get a grip....do you think thats gonna make her stay with you?.........
and to do something like that to yourself....especially for a girl.....I dunno what else to say except that you need prayer and you better get you silly butt to a church and talk with your maker.....get some fellowship and understand there is more to live for....I know you were just doing it to get her attention......seriously think she is gonna be like..."i really want you now...that really made me understand better?"..jeez....sorry, I may not be the best person to get sympathy from......thats just dumb stuff indeed.
get a life of different sorts.....get some friends.....go visit a local church and get some friends from there....christian fellowship will give you the strength to deal with lifes trials and tribulations .....nobody said it was going to be easy....but thats surely not making it any easier on ya........

oh, and next time post cliff notes.

*monks in unison*
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN


AWD:eek3:

[Tito Escobar]

Man this shit is still going on? I thought we already established you are an exreme fucking loser for doing what you did. I hope you find out your girls been cheating on you then maybe you'll end yourself and we dont have to read anymore threads about how pathetic you are. Seriously man you are a retard to think she loves you if shes gonna call the cops on you and then not even tell your parents she got you locked up. If that isnt a wake up call then i dont know what the fuck is. If she really loved you she would NOT have let you go through all that, she could have at least helped your parents bail you out. I guess she was probably with another guy tellin him how you came over and tried to kill yourself, so she called the cops on you.

[axio]

theres nothing soft except a toilet paper roll
This made me laugh.

[dropped90accord]

memories of harris county jail :ugh2:
i know what u mean aint nuttin like a bologna sandwich and a pb&j bar and a bag for a drinkin cup :thumb:

[Juanito]

this guy has lost his girlfriend and doesnt know it yet...and i think this shit is going to repeat over and over and over again in the relationships he will/may have...is this your first and only girlfriend?...i think if this realtionship lasts a bit longer someone is going to find themsleves dead...i suggest go see a doctor or if u cant afford sessions buy a fucking punching bag or hell a speed bag... im sure you know in your mind its over and dont want that reality...and as far as someone else slamming ur gal im sure its already underway b/c its almost the same with other things ie. job..finding a better one before leaving the one you have and there is always different strokes for different folks even if she is pretty/ugly...are you still employed? if so ask the boss for some days off so you can :bawling: this out of your system and begin the healing and moving on process...thats all i got for now...

[DwN_n_DiRtY23]

if u cant afford sessions buy a fucking punching bag
das what i did... it works!!!!

[juanschwartz]

look i never said i cried in jail. I dont know who the fuck said that. I didnt stay quiet, i shared my shit with the other people there too. They all told me the same thing except for one guy. Theres hope for any little thing possible. And i believe there is hope for my relationship even as i was told in jail.
:roflmao: :roflmao:

First of all, when in jail... mind your own business. Secondly, don't take advice from people in jail. Last, but certainly not least, move on. Close this chapter of your life. Even if you stay together, you're going to be too busy to spend time with her while pulling overtime to pay $5,000 for legal representation.

"Yeah, I just straight killed my bitch, and set the house on fire... but I think you and your girl got a real good chance of makin it dawg. Can I get a hug man?"

[DJLATIN]

i know what u mean aint nuttin like a bologna sandwich and a pb&j bar and a bag for a drinkin cup :thumb:
:thumb:

[AWD]

Im curious nismorick, were you a virgin before this chick?

AWD

[AWD]

"Yeah, I just straight killed my bitch, and set the house on fire... but I think you and your girl got a real good chance of makin it dawg. Can I get a hug man?"


:rofl:

AWD

[RaVeN]

First let me just say that this thread is off the fucking roffles.


Your first mistake was cutting yourself. But that topic has been beaten to a bloody pulp.

Your second mistake was letting yourself be a victim. People can smell fear, you are either a wolf or a lamb. People can figure out what you are very quickly, especially in confined spaces.

Don't just sit there, talk to people, make as many friends as you can as quick as you can. Even better make friends with the guards.

Now, if you are thinking that I have now idea wtf I'm talking about, step back.
I've been to jail several.....several times. And it has just become another night in the pokey.

And yes, I have even got my ass kicked in jail. But you know what? You never know what you are made of until you spend a night in jail.



What did they charge you with, anyway?

Hmm I never tried to start conversations with really anyone while I was there any of the times. Even in boot camp I wasn't a huge talker. Never had really any big issues I couldn't handle. But you are right going in acting like a lamb is a bad move. Just think about it as a motel, free room and board. It's not to bad, I just hate going to the bathroom there. Jail amazes me though I mean really put someone n there to "protect themselves" when they are emotional over relations just seems riddiculous, you needed someone to talk to not a more depressing situation, then again maybe it was a wake up call for you. Sorry you had to experience it, but really you weren't even started yet, take a few weeks to get put into the real cycle with the little groups and getting an understanding of what's going on in your particular block. Then there is always the pea farm.

[Juanito]

on the punching bag idea...let the punching bag sit in the rain for about a month and then punch the bottom of the bag as hard as you can...im sure ull do some damage :thumb: then u can laugh and tell your friends about how u broke ur hand and got ur wrist cut in vietnam

[RaVeN]

on the punching bag idea...let the punching bag sit in the rain for about a month and then punch the bottom of the bag as hard as you can...im sure ull do some damage :thumb: then u can laugh and tell your friends about how u broke ur hand and got ur wrist cut in vietnam
or just hit some bricks

[goztepe2002]

you fucking cried in county jail :rofl:hahaha stop bashing the guy .. it was his first time

[arabretard]

u left out the part about wen a guy named bubba gave it to u from the rear :kekegay:

[juanschwartz]

u left out the part about wen a guy named bubba gave it to u from the rear :kekegay:
Try something more original next time.

[woody]

Hope you feel better, and stop cutting yourself. That can't bring anything but more pain.

[Tayman]

damn rick.. Its not worth it bro.. if SHE called the police on you... that would be the ending point immediatly for me.. She would never hear from me again.. because of kim, you went to jail.. was it worth it bro?.. I hate to hear you cut yourself.. expecially over a girl.. i hate girls.. why the hell... blah, girls dont think right anyways... srry to hear bro. i had a friend who went to jail, and some big black guy sung him to sleep.. i heard all sorts of fucked up things that went down.
I was waiting for someone to mention this.

SHE CALLED THE COPS ON YOU MAN! IS THAT A WAKE UP CALL FOR YOU? No wait, you will console yourself by saying "she was scared" or she "cared for you that much". :yeahno:

Fuck that.

[juanschwartz]

if you cut yourself on the wrists and you weren't even taken to a hospital than you are an ATTENTION WHORE

[CovertPolarBear]

Hope you feel better, and stop cutting yourself. That can't bring anything but more pain.
or next time just stop missing, and hit the right vains.. its cheaper to die, than to pay for medical bills, court fee's, jail time... etc etc

[ThEshOcKeR]

I was in jail for 2 months. It sucked, but it's the price you pay for doing stupid shit. I didn't eat another damn bologna sandwhich or pb&j sandwhich for a long time afterwards though. :D

[S14sweetie04]

making fun of him and kim is not going to help him at all, its only going to make the situation worse. what he needs is someone to talk to who will offer him help and advice instead of someone saying his gf is ugly or making fun of him for crying in jail. cmon u guys, he doesnt deserve to be flamed, he went through enough, he just needs some help. he is obviously in love with this girl, and a couple of ppl on a car forum saying "you should leave her, shes ugly, ur crazy, etc" is not going to do anything but hurt him more. this poor guy is hurting enough as it is, and desperately needs some friends who will help him through this w/o flaming him.

if u dont have anything to say that is either nice or helpful, then maybe it would be better if u didnt say anything at all, and let the ones who really wanna help him do just that.....

as far as the whole cutting himself thing goes, i highly doubt he did it strictly for attention. ppl who do that kinda thing are deeply hurting, and are not thinking straight.....

and as for the ppl on this thread saying things like "next time hit the right vein, etc" that is seriously messed up. THIS POOR GUY NEEDS HELP! why are u making it seem like its alright for him to kill himself?? ppl in his state of mind already arent thinking straight due to the amount of pain they are in, and DONT NEED TO READ THAT SHIT, esp on a thread they made to try and get some help!! have some sympathy people!

im sorry if this offended anyone, i just dont like to see ANYONE get hurt, and nismopowrdrick if u ever need to talk just im me, my sn is sweetie20389.

cmon u guys, lets all try and help him instead of flaming him.